Happiness in Simplicity
By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond the winning. ~ Lao Tzu
So lately the following image has been flying around on social networking sites. There is some real wisdom in this simple little sign and it’s about honesty, simplicity and gratitude. We talk a lot here at the Ministry of Happiness about simplifying your life because complexity often leads to difficulty and problems which reduce our happiness. Being grateful is something that allows you to have a more positive perspective on life and honesty will quite simply help you cut the through the bullshit of life. As the sign says, if you miss someone contact them, it constantly amazes me how this simple bit of logic alludes us all at times. All too often we sit around and wonder if someone we care about is unhappy or upset with us, but we don’t ask. So many times when you ask that question you find out how imperfect communication is between people.
I am perhaps more keenly aware of this than others because I have always been a bit of a gypsy. As a result, my friends and loved ones are often at a distance from me and I have to rely a lot less than other people do on the comfort of face-to-face interactions. I can’t tell you how many times I have been misinterpreted or misinterpreted what was written in an e-mail or letter. A quick phone call can create confusion between people because the other person is distracted on the other end of the line, no form of communication is perfect until we evolve to communicate mind-to-mind.
The answer is to just be as open and honest as you can possibly be, the people who really care about you will receive this better than you might imagine. Be simple, take the easiest straightest path to the things you want and need in your pursuit of happiness. Be grateful for what and who you have in your life, and for the opportunities this life presents us all. Finally, as always, have a happy day my friends. ~ Rev Kane