Happy News – April 4, 2016

Happy NewsApril 4, 2016

happiness newsOur weekly tour around the web to find positive and uplifting news, have a happy day my friends  ~ Rev Kane

 

01Quick Thinking Kids Find Creative Way to Help Cops

 

02Starbucks to Donate Unused Food to the Needy

 

03Little Girl’s Books Lost in Fire Replaced by Authors

 

04Homeless Couple Gets Dream Wedding from Community

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Introducing RevKane.com

Introducing RevKane.com

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Rev Kane relaxing in the arctic snow flurries

So I’ve taken the next step with the Ministry of Happiness and we’ve got our own domain.  I would have loved to have Ministry of Happiness dot com or org but those were not available.  So, I’ve settled on RevKane.com which was available.  You can still use our old domain Ministryofhappiness.wordpress.com, either address will work and bring you to the same place, you can still find us on Twitter @ministryofhappy

Some other planned changes will be coming as well, I’ll be consolidating some the pages on the blog and adding some new ones including pages with my photographs, poetry and my travel journals.  One thing I’m really happy about is that when I upgraded the blog I was also able to set it up so that ads will no longer appear on the post, that’s right for now on we’re ad free here at the Ministry of Happiness, enjoy and have a happy day my friends ~ Rev Kane

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Happy News – March 28, 2016

Happy NewsMarch 28, 2016

happiness newsOur weekly tour around the web to bring you positive news, have a happy day my friends ~ Rev Kane

 

01Officer pretends to be out for a walk to walk woman with dementia home

 

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Firefighter pays $1000 electric bill to keep child on ventilator

 

03Brazilian ballet for the blind (video)

 

04Motherhood Helped Me Let Go of Perfection

 

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Happiness & Diastasis Recti

Happiness & Diastasis Recti

diastasis2So tonight’s post is a little bit different from my normal posts.  Tonight I want to talk about a medical condition I’ve just discovered that I have, it’s called Diastasis Recti.  Here’s a little definition and description.

Diastasis Recti

Diastasis is a common source of concern and confusion for both patients and doctors. Diastasis refers to a stretching of the connective tissue that normally holds each side of your “six pack” muscles together. This band of tissue called the Linea alba (white line) is generally relatively thin and firm. The white line may be weak in some individuals as a normal anatomical variant or, more commonly, it can be stretched out after large fluctuations in weight gain and loss, such as pregnancy.

Diastasis affects both men and women. Most commonly, a patient will notice an “Alien” coming from the abdomen between the rib cage and the belly button when they try to do a sit up. The area is rarely painful and almost is never seen except when doing “sit up” type movements. (From Michigan Hernia Surgery)

For me I noticed mine a couple of years ago, it was smaller and it made no sense to me as anatomically I knew that there wasn’t anything that should cause this bump.  I wish I had Googled it back then but I saw a really fit guy at the gym with one and just assumed it was normal.  A couple of weeks ago, I was doing some crunches and looked down to see that my bump had grown and that scared me.  So I Googled it and bam, Diastasis Recti (DR).  I had unfortunately made it worse over the last few months because I had been doing a lot of crunches and similar abdominal workouts.  I thought I was doing something good, and to a degree I was, but there are better ways to build your core strength that won’t aggravate or create this condition.

Of course the core reason for this condition is that I’ve been overweight for most of my life and I carry my weight around my belly which causes pressure on the linea alba much like when a woman is pregnant.  This condition is most often seen in post partum women who in an effort to get their pre-baby bodies back do tons of crunches and cause a weakening in the linea alba.  I have joked for years about my belly that I was pregnant, it seems the universe has a sense of humor.

Once I realized what was going on I set out to do some research and it was enlightening.  It was enlightening in two ways, first in what I was learning about the condition and secondly how much bad information is out there on the internet.  So, my disclaimer, I’m not a medical professional, you should check with yours before doing anything.  One of the first things I saw was that DR could not be fixed with exercise and had to be surgically repaired.  From my further research I don’t believe this to be true and have confirmed that with a couple of physical therapists.  Now, it may have to be surgically repaired if there is a hernia involved as well, or if after going through the appropriate physical therapy you are unable to re-strengthen the tissue and reduce the size of the bump.

What I have primarily learned is two things, in the beginning, abdominal binding may be a good idea but is not absolutely necessary.  Second, the real goal here is to increase your transverse abdominal muscles without doing exercises that stress the condition (i.e. crunches, traditional sit-ups or straight leg lifts).  This means working with some yoga and Pilates related exercises as well as doing abdominal bracing and hollowing exercises.  Almost everything I read said it would likely take up to six weeks to start to see results and up to twelve weeks to normally resolve the condition.  That of course means you’re doing the exercises religiously and not doing anything to cause a set back.  At the bottom of the piece I’ll list some sites that I found helpful both for exercises and information, but as always buyer beware.

So the title of the piece is Happiness & Diastasis Recti, how the heck could this make me happy?  It’s a lesson in our day-to-day happiness that I dare say I might not have come to several years ago.  In every situation there is an opportunity, they are not always obvious, but they are almost always there.  Happiness is also a choice, I strongly believe that and in this situation I’ve made the choice to look for the opportunity and be happy about it.  I will be for the next six weeks effectively be wearing a girdle and that will make me self-conscious as hell.  I can no longer do crunches or work the captain’s chair doing straight leg lifts, something that I was pretty proud of building up to.

However, this situation has provided me with a few things.  First, it is more motivation to lose weight, I’ve dropped down to within about twenty pounds of my goal weight, I’m almost fifty pounds lighter than I was at my heaviest and this has given me the extra motivation to lose those last pounds.  Secondly, I’m more in touch with my core, to say that in the most new age, hippie way I can think to say it.  However this is really a good thing, it’s got me exercising differently as well as changing some basic movements like the way I get out of bed.  This new core awareness should actually help me become a stronger better cyclist and hiker and that’s a good thing.

We all face struggles and new hurdles pop up all of the time, we can choose to be victims, we can choose to be upset, or we can choose to look for opportunities and make the best of things.  When we choose to look for those our opportunities we are choosing happiness, so choose happiness and have many happy days my friends ~ Rev Kane

Helpful Sites I’ve Found

DR beginning exercises for deep abdominal muscles – I really like this lady’s demeanor and it’s a great beginning point for exercises and workouts.  There are more advanced exercises on her home site.

12 Weeks of Workouts to Rebuild After DR – this site has a good section on how to determine if you have this as well as some good exercises for building your transverse abdominal (TVA) muscles.

Your guide to treating DR – Part 1

Your guide to treating DR – Part 2 – I really like these two videos, the trainer brings in a Physical Therapist to talk about the exercises and the condition and there’s a good little question and answer section.

The MuTu system, for Mummy Tummy – this system gets really good press around the net and seems to work, it’s essentially pre-packaged TVA and other exercises with an online coach for about $100.  So the first page is good info, but not everything as they want you to buy the rest.

 

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Mardi Gras 2016: A little Bit of Everything, Part 2

Mardi Gras 2016: A little Bit of Everything, Part 2

IMGP9841Another batch of my Mardi Gras 2016 photos, enjoy, have a happy day my friends ~ Rev Kane

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Mardi Gras 2016 – Street People, Part 2

Mardi Gras 2016Street People, Part 2

IMGP0103Some more photos tonight from my time in the French Quarter at Mardi Gras, 2016, enjoy and have a happy day my friends ~ Rev Kane

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Mardi Gras 2016: A Little Bit of Everything

Mardi Gras 2016: A Little Bit of Everything

beignetsAnother set of shots from Mardi Gras 2016, have a happy day my friends       ~ Rev Kane

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Happy News – March 21, 2016

Happy NewsMarch 21, 2016

happiness newsOur weekly tour to bring you some positive and happy news, have a happy day my friends ~ Rev Kane

01The Kentucky State House has just approved a fee community college plan

 

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Mardi Gras 2016: Street People, Part 1

Mardi Gras 2016: Street People, Part 1

fix elvis balconyTonight the first batch of shots of street folks from Mardi Gras 2016 in New Orleans.  Mostly daytime shots from the French Quarter, enjoy ~ Rev Kane

A shot I really like, a street poet set up near St. Louis Cathedral on Chartres.

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Happiness, the Solstice & IDoH

Happiness, the Solstice & IDoH

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Spring in the Mojave, flowers and snow in the Desert

From the end spring new beginnings ~ Pliny the Elder

So much on my mind tonight as I sit down for my weekly post, but first things first.  Happy International Day of Happiness, and a really nice bit of synergy happy Spring Solstice as well.  The following is a really amazing piece of writing by Deng Ming-Dao about the solstice.

It is the time of the equinox, when day and night are briefly equal.  This day signals the beginning of spring, the increasing of light, and the return of life to the frozen earth.

Of course, this day only represents a moment in time, spring has been long since returning and we know that summer will soon follow. The cycle of the seasons will continue in succession.  There is no such thing as a true stopping in time, for all is a continuum.  Nature makes its own concordances a mere outgrowth to its movement; it is we who see structure and give names to patterns.

But who can begrudge temporary pleasures to a solitary traveler?  Let us go out and enjoy the day, revel in the coming of spring, rejoice in the warming of the earth.  For though the ground may be covered with frost, movement and growth are taking place all around us.   Beauty bared fills our eyes and makes us drunk.  As we wander the endless mountains and streams, filling our lungs with the breath of the forests, let us take comfort in being part of nature.  For life has enough misery and misfortune.  Philosophy reminds us enough of the transience of life.  Give us the charm of the ephemeral, and let it silence all who would object.

I took this advice yesterday, I knew that today would be grey and rainy and so in the afternoon I took a stroll. It was a gorgeous day, warm, sunny along my path the rosemary and lavender bushes were in bloom and I took sprigs from each and rolled them in my had.  The smells of spring surrounded me.

01I had a lot on my mind on my walk, my Granny’s memorial service is coming up and it will be both a hard and wonderful day.  Hard for the obvious reasons, wonderful for the people I’ll get to see.  Family I don’t often see will be there, including my brother who I see far too infrequently.  We’ll get to share a pizza, a joy for both of us living outside of New York.

I’m also trying to work out one last little adventure before I go back into the working world in June.  Belize, Cuba, Key West and Hawaii have all been rolling through my mind and I need to make a decision tomorrow.  Picking any of them is not hard, what’s hard is the realization that I’m back to a time when I can’t do all of them.

I’m also starting to get into moving mode, I have a start date, June 1st and now I have to do all of the things it takes to get me and all of my possessions 400 miles south and into a new living situation.  I’ll be busy but happy, I’m looking forward to my newest beginning, the job sounds exciting and I get to explore the Mojave Desert and am close to adventures in Utah and Nevada.

01So right now, my head is swimming with so much going on inside.  It’s ground me to a halt physically and I’ve been a bit lazy this last week.  My last hurrah for sleeping in and being a night owl, time to start adjusting back to more “normal” default world schedules.

We all go through this my friends, the wheel never stops turning.  Each ending is but a new beginning, it’s spring again, the world is waking and growing and so should we.  Take some time to get some sun on your nose and have a happy day my friends. ~ Rev Kane

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