Three Questions, April 11, 2025

There was a guide?! ~ Rev Kane

Three Questions, April 11, 2025

You can find the background to The Three Questions in my recent post about it. I’ll be answering the questions each day for the next year and putting this experience into a book. Here we go!

What was the most beautiful thing I encountered today?

This is an easy one, I met my friends newborn today and she was absolutely beautiful, like a tiny little doll.

What did I learn today?

The reason neutrinos move so much faster than light photons is because of how little they interact with other types of molecules.

What made me happy today?

Today was a cheat day for me, I made raviolis and sausage with garlic bread and a cupcake for desert.

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Three Questions, April 10, 2025

Science is not only a disciple of reason but, also, one of romance and passion. ~ Stephen Hawking

Three Questions, April 10, 2025

You can find the background to The Three Questions in my recent post about it. I’ll be answering the questions each day for the next year and putting this experience into a book. Here we go!

What was the most beautiful thing I saw today?

It was a gorgeous day on campus, a sunny afternoon and a beautiful day overlooking the ocean.

What did I learn today?

Today I learned about something called the sun candle phenomenon. A really cool phenomenon that looks like a portal to another dimension.

What made me happy today?

A big juicy porterhouse steak, had a discussion about steak yesterday and it built up in my head all day.

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Three Questions, April 9, 2025

The ultimate value of life depends upon awareness and the power of contemplation rather than upon mere survival. ~ Aristotle

Three Questions, April 9, 2025

You can find the background to The Three Questions in my recent post about it. I’ll be answering the questions each day for the next year and putting this experience into a book. Here we go!

What was the most beautiful thing I encountered today?

A pretty white flower on my walk, it was really gorgeous.

What did I learn today?

There was a Syrian writer who wrote a science fiction story in 175 AD that included a miles long whale with cities inside it.

What made me happy today?

My niece called me, she got her birthday presents and called the thank me, made my day.

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Three Questions, April 8, 2025

Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around. ~ Leo Buscaglia

Three Questions, April 8, 2025

What was the most beautiful thing I encountered today?

Today I sent out a note to the people who’ve agreed to help me out during my recovery after my open heart surgery, that list was easily the most beautiful thing I encountered today.

What did I learn today?

An ocean census had been recently and they discovered 866 new species, super cool.

What made me happy today?

A really great employee that I hired several years ago came into my office today and informed me he is going to be a father. He was beaming and so happy that it made me absolutely happy as well.

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The Beauty of Karma

I believe in Karma. If the good is sown, the good is collected. When positive things are made, that returns well. ~ Yannick Noah

The Beauty of Karma

I am a big believer in Karma, honestly I consider it nothing more than physics. Newton’s third law, that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction, and yes, for the scientists reading this, I absolutely do know I’m over simplifying. And to simplify they way I think about Karma even more, if you drop a stone into a calm body of water ripples extend in every direction, but they don’t go on forever. Once they hit the boundary of the puddle the waves rebound and come back to the source. So the way I see it, the actions that we take are the pebbles we drop into the pond. Karma is the rebound of the waves our actions have created returning to us. Those waves that return are similar to the waves that were sent. So send out waves of positivity and caring, and get that in return.

So before we continue let me be clear about something, I can be a complete bastard. I want to make that clear so that no one accuses me of breaking my arm patting my self on my back. I very much view myself as a mirror, I reflect back what I get. If you come at me with arrogance, anger and a lack of compassion, that’s exactly what you get back and you’ll get it with a whole lot of energy behind it, and I don’t feel bad about it. Like the edges of the puddle, I reflect the waves back at who made them. In my job, whenever I take a new position, I tell my people the same thing every time. We work in education, if the work you do and the actions you take show that you care about the welfare of students, we’ll get along great. If the actions you take show you don’t, we’ll have issues. The other thing I make a great effort to do in my job is to get to know and support my classified professional staff. In higher education there is often a hierarchical view of the people who work on a campus. Faculty are put on a pedestal, but the classified folks, the administrative assistants who run the world, the technicians, aides and custodians, all who are absolutely critical for the success of the institution and therefore the students, are often considered less than, because they are sometimes less educated. Being a blue collar kid and a first generation college student, that attitude angers me.

So I work hard to support my classified folks, one of the things I do in their evaluations is to ask them how I can be a better boss, and I also ask them how I can support whatever their next career move is going to be. I’m extremely proud of all of the classified professional staff over the years who have achieved their career goals with my support. This week those actions reflected back to me in a bunch of ways. First, as I discussed in my Rev’s Wild Ride post, a number of my staff are people who are offering to help me during my recovery after my upcoming open-heart surgery. The other thing that has happened is a number of folks, groundskeepers, maintenance staff and custodians have sought me out to ask about my surgery and how I’m doing. These folks are not people I supervise, they are just people who also work on campus who appreciate that I treat them with kindness and respect like they matter, because quite simply they do and I appreciate their contributions.

Often when we think about Karma we think about the bad actors and wonder when the wheel of Karma will turn and bring them the consequences they deserve. But I’ve learned something about Karma in my life, it always comes, but it comes on it’s own timeline and often not when we’d like to see it. But at times, like what I’ve been describing, sometimes those positive karmic waves come rolling back just when you need them, I’m seeing that right now and it quite simply has warmed my heart and been a nice reminder of how important and why it’s right to treat people with kindness and respect.

Have a happy day my friends. ~ Rev Kane

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Three Questions, April 7, 2025

God creates dinosaurs, God destroys dinosaurs. God creates man. Man destroys God. Man brings back dinosaurs. ~ Dr. Ian Macalom, Jurassic Park (Michael Chriton)

Three Questions, April 7, 2025

You can find the background to The Three Questions in my recent post about it. I’ll be answering the questions each day for the next year and putting this experience into a book. Here we go!

What was the most beautiful thing I encountered today?

It was hearing dire wolf pups howl, a sound that has not been heard in over 10,000 years.

What did you learn today?

Today is a hugely historic day, Colossal Biosciences today announced and showed that they have successfully resurrected the first extinct species, the dire wolf. They also plan to bring back the Tasmanian Tiger, Sabertooth Tigers and Woolly Mammoths.

What made you happy today?

Seeing a video of the Dire Wolf pups and hearing them howl.

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Three Questions, April 6, 2025

The best part of beauty is that which no picture can express. ~ Francis Bacon

Three Questions, April 6, 2025

You can find the background to The Three Questions in my recent post about it. I’ll be answering the questions each day for the next year and putting this experience into a book. Here we go!

What was the most beautiful thing I encountered today?

There were a lot of pretty flowers on my walk today, nothing spectacular but the warm weather lately and the sunshine has brought out a lot of flowers.

What did I learn today?

I learned of a very important operation taking place in Brooklyn. Apparently my littlest niece, with several other operatives in running a spy operation. They are spying on her friend’s bullies, who are also apparently spying on them, it’s very complicated. This is a highly complex operation and I was honored to be read in on the various maps, plans and messages of encouragement for her friend.

What made me happy today?

Talking to my brother’s family, my niece and nephews are amazing and as I relayed above I got fully read in on the five year-old’s spy operation.

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Rev Kane’s Wild Ride: Helpers and Coasters

Live so that when your children think of fairness, caring, and integrity, they think of you. ~ H. Jackson Brown Jr.

Rev Kane’s Wild Ride: Helpers and Coasters

So it’s been an interesting week on the open heart surgery front. The first part has been a really great thing. I live alone, have no family here am not in any kind of a serious romantic relationship. So that means essentially I’m on my own for rides to the airport, or dealing with medical appointments etc… I’m a pretty independent fellow and I can handle most things on my own. However, open-heart surgery gets a whole lot more complicated than what I normally deal with. This means that I’ll need support to get home from the hospital and while I’m recovering particularly the first week.

First off, I have to greatly thank my assistant Angelica at work, she’s taken over the reigns as the commander of the keep Michael alive and well operation. Also, as the date has approached, and when people have sincerely offered to help I’ve put them on a list. These folks, coordinated by the commander, will help out with rides, checking in on me, taking me to appointments and picking up groceries for me. This is a significant thing to me, these are people I work with, have connected with over the last couple of years but they are truly treating me like family, not sure how much better it gets than that, I’m utterly grateful to them.

The other thing that happened on the wild ride happened this afternoon while I was video chatting with my brother and his family. The phone rang and it was my doctor’s office, which is seriously odd for a Sunday afternoon, and unsurprisingly it wasn’t great news. My surgery is being postponed for three weeks. It’s happening because there are people in the hospital in bad shape that need surgery dates soon or they’ll die. So the upside is of course that I’m fortunate and happy to be healthy enough that my surgery can be put off a couple of weeks.

But this has been a roller coaster. First I thought I’d have surgery, then my cardiologist said no, but lets do one more test, which turned into a meeting with a surgeon, which meant surgery was on. Then my blood sugar was too high and so there was a real chance that it was get delayed. I got my sugar numbers in line and was on schedule for April 15th and now we’ve been pushed off. All you can do is laugh and float with the river, there are some things you just don’t have control over and you have to accept that.

Have a happy day my friends. ~ Rev Kane

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Remembering My Granny

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My granny in her Lou Reed phase

If someone says something about your dad, don’t worry he can fight his own battles. But if someone says anything about me, your mom or your sister, bust em in the mouth. ~ My Granny

Remembering My Granny

So today would have been my Granny’s 100th birthday, she was an incredibly important person in my life, so tonight, re-linking a couple of posts I’d done about her over the years, happy birthday granny. My granny was an honest to goodness hillbilly, lived in a house with dirt floors, slept under cardboard with her siblings on the floor, got her first pair of shoes at age 9 for her first holy communion and got married at sixteen after my grandfather met her climbing in a tree. Hope you enjoy the pieces. ~ Rev Kane

Life Lessons from Granny

Happiness is Granny

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Three Questions, April 5, 2025

Every viewer is going to get a different thing. That’s the thing about painting, photography, cinema. ~ David Lynch

Three Questions, April 5, 2025

You can find the background to The Three Questions in my recent post about it. I’ll be answering the questions each day for the next year and putting this experience into a book. Here we go!

What was the most beautiful thing I saw today?

As a photographer, when I’m walking I’m always looking for an angle, looking for a good shot. Today I found a particularly good angle for a shot up under the ferris wheel on Fisherman’s Wharf.

What did I learn today?

There’s a cloud of water vapor floating together in space, that has 100 trillion times the amount of water as the entire Earth. The fact that this type of large quantity of water available in space, bodes well for future human space travel.

What made me happy today?

I have been on my best eating behavior for six weeks, so for the first time in six weeks today I got a pizza and a coke for lunch and it was absolutely amazing and made me completely happy.

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