A Happy Conversation

A Happy Conversation

fix crop sign 2Yesterday is not ours to recover, but tomorrow is ours to win or lose                ~ Lyndon B Johnson

So I’m back in the Sacramento area, I’ve rented a place her for a couple of months while I do a job search.  I’m happy to report I have an interview on March 7th so things are moving forward for me.  It’s nice coming back to someplace you lived and worked for some time.  I had the pleasure of hanging out at my old workplace a bit over each of two days and visiting and catching up with friends.

It’s been a bit of a surreal experience returning, settling into an apartment, running errands.  The treasure hunt that has been digging through my storage space has yielded some odd results.  For instance in getting ready for my interview I was able to find my suits, my dress shirts, my pants and even my ties.  However, I have not been able to locate my dress shoes and socks.  I don’t think I’ll get the job if I show up in a suit barefoot, or wearing my hiking shoes, so I guess it’s off to do some shoe shopping tomorrow.

Although a bit weird it does feel good to be settled a bit.  I’ve really enjoyed cooking the last couple of days and have been eating a lot.  I want to cook everything I haven’t had in a long time immediately, so it will be good to get back into my daily gym routine this week.

I was wondering what I would write about for my Sunday post, the report out above was of course part of it, but didn’t have a lot to do with happiness, then I bumped into one of my favorite people at my old job.  He’s a custodian and besides just being a nice guy and a hard worker he’s always happy.  In the three years we worked together I never saw him in a down mood, never heard a negative word from him.

I was instantly happier once I saw him, his positivity is down right infectious.  I told him how much I appreciate his attitude and he smiled, of course, and told me it made no sense not to be happy.  He related to me that in his fifteen years in the United States he has come to know that this country is really a wonderful place.  That he’s so thankful every day for his life here, once again we see that gratitude pays dividends.  He grew up in the former Soviet Union and his life when he was younger was tough and full of deprivation.  He truly loves the United States and not just what America represents but the actual realization of that in his day to day life.  I think the favorite thing he said to me was how nice it is to just to be able to live your life day to day, work, relax, sit in the sunshine.

He truly gets the formula for happiness including not having expectations that are unrealistic, appreciating and focusing on the small things, being mindful, and expressing gratitude.  He also said to me that even when he feels bad, he smiles, because just smiling makes him feel a little bit better and helps him have a happier day.  So smile and have your own happy day my friends ~ Rev Kane

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On the road and across the middle

On the road and across the middle

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Sunset in Nebraska

Travel makes one modest, you see what a tiny place you occupy in this world ~ Gustave Flaubert

So it’s been a fast and wonderful week.  I had hoped to be doing individual posts about each of my stops and will try to get some of that out this week.  Happily, my days have been busy and exciting and that has led to be me being tired and crashing at night without the energy needed to crank out full posts.  I have been getting out quick Instagram posts and you can find those at @reverendmichaelkane on that platform they also get posted to Twitter at @ministryofhappy.

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Walked a mile on the Kit Carson Trail in Carson City

 

Royal Flushes and Road Miles

So this week I did a LOT of driving, basically Reno to New York a little over 2500 road miles.  But it was an adventurous run.  Saw some good friends in Carson City and even walked a mile of the Kit Carson Trail.  Not so tough consider this part at least runs down main street in Carson City.  Went back to Reno and took one last shot going after a jackpot at the Silver Legacy Casino, it was only $500+ on a nickel machine but I’d invested some time and money into it thinking it would hit, and well…

It did!!! and has you can see, I only held the Ace and the machine gave me the other four.  Good to know one of my rules on video poker panned out the way it was supposed to.  So I left Reno on a happy note and drove to Salt Lake City, nothing adventurous about the drive but Utah is a really beautiful place.

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Salt flats in Utah

And maybe never prettier than when there is a thin layer of water on the salt flats.

On the Oregon Trail

I also stopped at the Oregon Trail road stop, I think it was this day, I honestly am not sure.  But it was really cool, a nice quick stop and a nice little free museum with some interesting displays, I really liked this little place.

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The great state of Nebraska

I left Utah with a short driving day heading for Sydney, Nebraska from what I can tell known for having a really big Cabelas Store there. On the way while driving through Wyoming I was continually driving into a black skyline lit with lightning.  No rain on me, it just always seemed to be on the horizon, until it wasn’t.  In the span of 5 minutes my phone started buzzing with flash flood alerts, a highway sign gave me a thunderstorm and hail alert and the next one, well I got focused on one word, tornado.  Just as smidge before the sky cut loose and all that nastiness on the horizon was suddenly right overhead, super heavy rain, lightning, a brief hailstorm and just general blackness.  Then, as suddenly as it had all come on, it was gone and eventually I returned to blue skies.  Arriving in Sydney the skies were ominous for a bit and we got some rain but that all really paid off as you can see below… and yes Hampton Inn that picture is copyrighted, contact me, we can work a deal.

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Sunset in Nebraska

An old friend

It is amazing how quickly time gets away from you.  Here I am pictured with my friend Mark and his wife in Lincoln, Nebraska.  Mark and I went to grad school together almost 30 years ago, man that took a while to sink in.  This fall it will be 30 years since I started graduate school.  It’s been almost 20 since I’ve seen him and it was wonderful catching up, he hasn’t changed, our relationship hasn’t changed and it was great to just have a long comfortable conversation over dinner with a good friend.  I did have to chuckle though, at one point after we’d been talking for about an hour his wife looked at him and said, “how did you two become friends, you’re sooooo different.”  We are different in a lot of ways, but when the core of two people is that they are both open, honest and don’t have time for bullshit, it’s pretty easy to get along.

Take me out to the ballpark, but first I’m going to Graceland

As a baseball fan and in particular a National League fan, seeing a day game at Wrigley Field in Chicago has been on my bucket list for a very long time.

wrigley field, cubs, travelOne of my other passions is photographing cemeteries, I love the peaceful settings, the little spots of nature inside of busy cities.  And I long ago fell in love with the sculpture work done on the monuments.  Graceland Cemetery and two others are just a half mile north of Wrigley Field, so before the Cubs game I went up and spent some time shooting there.  The first thing I noticed were that there were more obelisks in this cemetery than I’ve ever seen anywhere before.  It was a beautiful cemetery and I really enjoyed shooting there and hope to get a full post up about it this week.

graceland, chicago, cemetery, photography graceland, chicago, cemetery, photographyWrigley Field is a wonderful park, right in the city, easily accessible by mass transit.  There doesn’t seem to be a bad seat in the stadium or on the roof across the street for that matter. I had picked seats in section 415 down the third baseline for a number of reasons.  They are under the overhang so shade and rain protection if necessary, foul ball accessible, right over third base and not horribly expensive.  I sat next to a really nice family and even played academic career advisory for a few a minutes for their incredibly smart daughter who is about to go to college.

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Rev Kane at Wrigley Field

Of course, no trip to Chicago and especially not to Wrigley would be complete without a hot dog.

wrigley field, cubs, travelMy other day in Chicago I flipped down to the navy pier and walked around the water front for a bit, then on the recommendation of a friend did the river architectural boat tour and my friends I can not recommend this more highly, what a great way to enjoy Chicago, take a nice boat ride and learn a lot about the city.

architectural boat tour, chicagoFinally of course, much like a hot dog at Wrigley you can’t pass through Chicago without a little deep dish, now to be clear, it’s not real pizza, but it is real good food.

Here we go Steelers

From Chicago I hit the road to check off another bucket list item, a visit to the Pittsburgh Steeler Training camp at St. Vincent’s University in Latrobe, Pennsylvannia, also the home to Arnold Palmer.

It was a fun day, got some autographs and some great photos, still on my camera unfortunately not yet downloaded, of some of the jets practicing for a big airshow this weekend.  Just a really great day except for a little thunderstorm that rumbled through early which led to an interesting moment.  I’d checked the weather radar and timed it well, got to the field with only one more little storm cell needing to pass.  That went over while I was in the merchandise tent and then I wandered over to the field.  At that point the emergency sirens for the college went off and the speaker clicked to life, “the emergency is over, thank you for taking appropriate precautions.”  Apparently we’d been under a severe storm emergency warning and I had missed the start of the emergency.  It suddenly made sense why I was the only person leaning against the metal rails of the metal bleachers, oops!

A couple photos from the Steeler’s Training Camp, hoping to post a lot more in the next couple of days.

Coach Tomlin giving me a thumbs up for a photo

Traveling is such and awesome thing and yesterday evening I made it east to where I grew up and have been hanging with nieces and nephews.  I can’t believe it’s only one week til I board a plane a for Scotland.  It’s been a grand adventure so far and I hope, as always, that you’re having a happy day my friends.  ~ Rev Kane

 

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Happy News – January 5, 2018

Happy News – January 5, 2018

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Love more Fear less

Love Yourself.  It is important to stay positivity because beauty comes from the inside out. ~ Jenn Proske

Welcome to the first weekend of the new year my friends, some positive and happy news pieces to help us keep positive.  Enjoy, and have a happy day my friends. ~ Rev Kane

Best friends for 60 years find out they are biological brothers

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Brothers

 

Elementary school flooded with blankets after little girl’s letter goes viral

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viral letter

 

Customer leaves $3000 tip on $39 check

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Great Tip

 

British Columbia bans all Grizzly Bear hunting effective immediately

 

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Happiness is Art: Favorite Projects

Happiness is Art: Favorite Projects

So friends tonight some links to some amazing art projects that will certainly help you have a happy day ~ Rev Kane

Shadow Art

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Shadow Art – The first link is to possibly the coolest art project I’ve ever seen, the shadow art pieces have mind blowing origination points.

Fairy Doors

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Fairy Doors – One of my favorite projects small fairy doors that mysteriously appear and disappear on the sides of buildings.

Clet Abraham

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I first learned of Clet Abraham when a friend in Italy posted what had happened to his town, absolutely fantastic street sigh graffiti.

Bliss

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Bliss – a link to info about a public art installation that I first was lucky enough to see at Burning Man

Hamburg’s Lady of the Lake

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Hamburg’s Lady of the Lake – a giant bathing woman in a lake in Hamburg Germany, so awesome.

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Happy Imaginings: Charles Bukowski

Happy Imaginings: Charles Bukowski

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Charles Bukowski

Find what you love and let it kill you. ~ Charles Bukowski

This is Fake News

There is a book I’ve always wanted to write called 20 famous people worth having a beer with.  Essentially, I want to interview famous people who actually seem down to earth, people who for as famous as they are, seem like they’d still be regular enough people that you’d want to have a drink with them.  Since it is unlikely that I’ll get that opportunity anytime soon, I’ve decided to make up the interviews.  We all have so many imaginary conversations in our heads, I’ve just decided to have some of mine in the ether and share them with you.  This is meant to be a bit of fun, I hope it’s taken that way and hey, if any of the people I’m writing about, the living ones anyway, want to correct the record with an actual interview, I’m all in. ~ Rev Kane

My favorite poet, the first poet I ever really found worth reading is Charles Bukowski.  I first encountered him through this novels.  I loved them, and I didn’t know  he was actually far more famous as a poet.  In a bookstore looking for another book I stumbled upon his poetry, it was nothing short of a revelation.  In high school I had a fantastic English teacher, he introduced me to levels and types of art and culture I doubt I would have otherwise ever encountered.  As for poetry, although I did enjoy folks like William Carlos Williams, I found most poetry with it’s rigid rules, fancy language and lofty subject matter to be a huge turn off.  Even more so after high school as I had started writing, what I wrote felt like poetry to me but didn’t conform to anything that I’d ever read.  That was until I read my first Bukowski poem.  Here was a poet, not  conforming to rules, using plain language and writing about pain, drunks, whores and violence.  I have often said that Charles Bukowski gave me permission to be a writer.

Of course I was just ignorant, there is lots of poetry out there that doesn’t conform, one of the best books I’ve ever read is the Outlaw Bible of American Poetry.  It’s full of amazing writers who don’t confrom like Doug Draime and Sapphire.  As I delved deeper into poetry I’ve found lots of writers I really love, perhaps the most amazing being Warsan Shire, who suddenly got well known when Beyonce used her words in a video.  For me though Bukowski is the grandfather of them all, a drunken, angry, genius of a grandfather.

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Bukowski’s Grave

Welcome to Happy Imaginings Charles Bukowski!

Me: Welcome Mr. Bukowski

Buk: Jesus Christ, you’re not one them are you? I mean seriously I don’t have any fucking time for some formal little asshole asking me polite questions.  And wasn’t there supposed to be a bottle here, I’m pretty sure the agreement said there would be a bottle.

Me: Yes, here you go you mean old bastard.

Buk: <takes a drink, smiles> That’s better you bald fuck, let’s get to it.

Me: I realize that every reader brings their own ideas to the work, but for you, what is the essence of Charles Bukowski’s poetry?

Buk: Why the fuck are you using my full name <shaking his head, takes a drink> Look you claim to be a writer, if you are you know.  There is no definable essence, the work is just necessary, the same way breathing is necessary, the way food, fucking and booze are necessary, I have to write.  There is no essence other than survival.

Me: One of my favorite lines of yours is, find what you love and let it kill you, what the hell does that mean?

Buk: You said it already, it will mean something different to every reader, but for me the reality is that life is a fucking nightmare.  You’re surrounded by idiots constantly, the government keeps you down, your boss keeps you down, the system won’t let you get back up.  The only option you have is to find some piece of happy, something you love and give everything to it, and I mean absolutely everything until you have nothing left and you die. That’s a good death, even if you can’t have a good life.

Me: What advice would you give a young writer just starting out?

Buk: Don’t, just don’t, this business sucks, you can’t live being a writer, not as a career.  But if you have to, not if you want to, not if you think it’s a good idea, but if you have to then you’re a writer and you’ll write whether someone tells you to or not.  So write, but fuck the business of writing.

Me:  If you could do it all over again, what would you do differently?

Buk: I would have gotten famous earlier so that I would have been younger when the groupies started showing up. I mean I had some fun, but man I would have had so much more if I’d been younger.

Me: So one last thing, would you be willing to take a look at some of my poetry.

Buk: Not a fucking chance, you’re too old.

Me: Thanks for the time.

Other Happy Imaginings

William Shatner!

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Sunday night on the Road

Sunday night on the Road

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A rainbow coming out of my room last night

Everyday is a journey and the journey itself is home. ~ Matsuo  Basho

There is a comfort I find driving all day.  I don’t mind being alone and with my Sirius XM radio I get to listen to a lot of news and discussion when I’m not going full-out car karaoke.  I make no secret of the fact that I’m not fond of humanity as a group, individuals, absolutely, but as a group and in general, not a big fan.

Happily, for the most part on my drive things have been quiet.  One jerk in a 40 foot motor home tailgating me for a bit, but otherwise a good drive.  What amazes me though is the transition once I hit a stop.  Suddenly, humans everywhere, some really great like the lady who gave me my drink for free today at the Pilot in Nebraska.  Or the two kids busking outside, I’ve seen a lot of street performers in my time but never a sister and brother act on snare drum and flute.  Their parents were with them and they had instrumental tracks on tape backing them up.  They were even doing a little Led Zeppelin at one point.  I went over and donated a dollar to their cause, their sign explained that their parents paid the deposit but they had to raise the rest of the money for a trip to Europe.  I hope they make it.

Of course on the other end, sitting in my car and suddenly, thud and the car shakes.  Yes, the 19 year-old girl who pulled in next to me slammed her SUV door into my car.  Which she was completely fine with until she saw me glaring at her.  She then freaked out a bit, jumped back in her vehicle and took off.  Happily there wasn’t any damage.

Seems like humanity is always a mixed bag.  I also learned on the radio today that the term sneakers originated from a women’s prison guard who donned her rubber soled shoes so she could “sneak” around the prison at night and spy on the prisoners, they called her the “sneaker.” The term eventually carried onto the rubber soled shoes called sneakers.

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Great Sunset on the Road

The road always gives you a lot of time to think but the last couple of days my head has been uncharacteristically calm.  I will be writing more this week about my time in Nevada and the great friends I got to see there, and then more about driving across the middle.  But for now, off to dinner with a good friend who I have not seen in over 20 years.  I look forward to good conversation and catching up, definitely a happy day my friends.  So goodnight from Lincoln, Nebraska.  ~ Rev Kane

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Leaving California

Leaving California

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Sunset in Reno

Who can’t relate to the idea of leaving one chapter behind and moving on to the next. ~ Mike Shinoda

So I’ve left California.  But not before I had the opportunity to catch up with some really great friends.  I hung out with these two fabulous people whose wedding I officiated.

Then I had a really amazing dinner with a good friend and her husband.

food, happinessHad lunch in Truckee with a one of the coolest humans I know.

And had breakfast with a great friend and attended a little league game with a friend to watch her amazing kid play baseball.  But tonight I’m in Reno, about two hang out with some great friends again tomorrow.

Hope you are all well and having a happy day my friends. ~ Rev Kane

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On the Road Again

On the Road Again

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Point Hueneme

The world is a book and those who do not travel see only one page.                     ~ St. Augustine

So I love traveling and as most of you know I’m on the road again, can never help but sing a little Willie Nelson every time I set out.  So I lit out of the Mojave Desert early Saturday and headed for Simi Valley, an auspicious start as there was no traffic on the 405, for those of you who don’t live in Southern California, trust me, that’s a rare and beautiful thing.  My goal for the morning was the Ronald Reagan Presidential Library.  A few days earlier, while figuring out what I wanted to do down on the way to the coast an ad came up showing that the library had a Genghis Khan exhibit and there it was, destination decided.

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The Ronald Reagan Presidential Library

I arrived at the library at opening time, 10AM and there were already about a 100 people in line.  I was pretty surprised and apparently they were just early arrivers, by time I left an hour or so later there was no one in line.

The grounds at the library are impressive and no more so than when viewed from the museum’s hangar, yes, hangar where they exhibit Air Force One, Marine One and a number of vehicles.

reagan, air force one, travelThe Reagan museum was about what I expected, a very positive look at the president’s life and time in office.  Lot’s of flag waving rah-rah patriotism and the like, but it was interesting.  There was one small weird thing that occurred while I was there, a small rip in space and time, sort of a Philadelphia Experiment moment, a frog alien came riding in on a horse and that unfortunately resulted in the poor horse rematerializing into the floor.

Genghis Khan

I was really excited for the Genghis Khan exhibit.  He was an amazing human, conquered half the bloody world, like Napoleon, made huge contributions to law and culture.  His empire created local democracies, the rule of law and heavily believed in freedom of religion creating societies where Buddhists, Muslims and Christians lived together.  His second successor, his son Kublai Khan, united China and  formed the Yang Dynasty.  I very much loved the ceremonial masks in the exhibit.

Lunch with a Friend

Part of any of my travel adventures involves catching up with old friends whenever possible and the reason I initially headed south and west on this trip was to connect with my friend Luis.  Someone I have a lot in common with, loved working with and is someone who is always a lock for a great conversation, one of his questions even inspired an old post, What is the price of being you?  It was great to see him and spend a little time.

Really he likes me, should have counted so he could smile on cue.

The first disaster, wait that should be in quotes, “disaster”

There are always small misadventures on any adventure and all you can hope for is that they will be small and I’ve already had my first.  The car in front of me swerved and I was suddenly running over something I hadn’t seen, hear a loud pop and then felt and heard something dragging under my car.  I pulled off and found a small five gallon bucket wedged to the frame in front of my rear tire.  I pulled it out and tossed it off the highway, frustrated but didn’t see any damage and began driving, only to notice an odd noise.  When I finally found a quiet place to pull off I found that the bucket had broke off a clip on the plastic front end and flap in front of my front tire.  As I sped up the wind pushed the piece back and it was rubbing against the tire.  The tire was destroying the plastic and what I had to do was disassemble the lower piece and cut off part of it to keep it off my tire.  Tomorrow I’ll get to a shop and see if I can get the remaining piece clipped or wired back to the frame.  So yeah, sucks a bit but could have been much worse.

The Pacific Ocean

surfer, ocean, pacific, happiness, travelI love going literally coast to coast, so I made a point of making a stop at the Pacific on this end of the journey at Pt. Hueneme.  I walked out on the pier, watched some surfers and stuck my toes in the Pacific.  Eastward ho!  But north first to see some friends in Sacramento.  As always, I hope you have a happy day my friends. ~ Rev Kane

 

 

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My 2018 Adventure: Vegas Baby!

My 2018 Adventure: Vegas Baby!

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Vegas Baby!

Jobs fill your pockets, adventures fill your soul. ~ Jaime Lyn

So it’s finally here, I’m once again unemployed and onto my next adventure.  My last day of work started unfortunately early at 7:45AM with a potluck, but did at least involve a fabulous cake.

cake, happiness, travelMy next destination was a quick trip to Vegas to see some family and visit with friends who live in the area.  I had a great trip, and it got me reminiscing about my earliest trips to Vegas and how much the place has changed over the years.  I go to Vegas for set of really specific things.  First to see some friends, I have a number of friends in Las Vegas, some from my childhood, some I’ve made along the way and it’s great to catch up and hang out with them.  It was certainly hot and my stop in Baker shows you exactly how hot.

baker, vegas, travel, heatThe second reason is food, particularly given where I’ve been living over the last couple of years there isn’t exactly a great selection of food here, and most importantly an utter lack of good pizza. So I go to Vegas to eat across the spectrum, from really nice restaurant meals to hot dogs, pizzas, milk shakes and cupcakes.  All of my normal food rules go out the windows for a few days.

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A nice slice of NY style pizza

I also like to gamble.  I play craps and video poker and honestly this trip for the most part that didn’t go real well.  I didn’t win on the video poker machines and although I had two really fun sessions on the craps table at the Casino Royale, I only won about $100 in one of the sessions, $10 in the other, but had several losing sessions as well.

A lot of people ask me why do you go to Las Vegas?  Well as I mentioned above, friends, good food, fun, gambling and I do a lot of walking and people watching while I’m there.  I usually also have a specific little thing that I’m doing while I’m there.  It may be a specific show or an event with friends.  Although it wasn’t the focus, this trip I spent a really great and mellow day hanging out at a friend’s house for the Fourth of July.  But my little project for this run was to create a specific photo to say thank you and do some urban walking and break in my new hiking shoes in preparation for the street/road miles on the Camino Primitivo I’ll be walking in September in Spain.

The thank you was for my brother and his family, they had sent me a present, a t-shirt with an image of Hunter S. Thompson.  If you don’t know him, he was a writer for Rolling Stone magazine, an eccentric drug fueled madman and wrote the funniest book I’ve ever read, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas.  In that book, Hunter takes a particularly funny drug induced venture through the Circus Circus casino in Las Vegas, so the photos below were taken as my way to say thank you and celebrate Hunter’s memory.

hunter s thompson, fear and loathing, las vegasvegas, circus, clownsThe marquee for Circus Circus is sort of whimsical and terrifying, and what is holding up that lollipop?

Hunter’s book also included events around the fabulous Mint 400 road race, on the way home I stopped in Jean, NV to get breakfast and coincidentally found this poster.

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Found this beauty on display there as well.

batman, bat mobile, I'm batmanThis particular trip included a really wonderful day.  It started out with breakfast with my cousins and their two little boys, including a post-breakfast walk through M&M world with a 3 year-old, he lost his bloody mind in there.  From there I took care of some work on my car and while waiting had a really nice burrito bowl for lunch.  After getting back into town, I took a lovely little nap in my hotel room and afterword did a little walk.  After walking for a couple of hours I ended up at a place I’d found online that had inexpensive meals and actually settled in for an early dinner of surf and turf of a really nice steak and small lobster tail.  I strolled back along the strip and did a bit of gambling, I was pretty much breaking even all day, including a nice 90 minute session on the craps tables at the Casino Royale, I ended up winning a whopping $10 but had a really good time playing.  I had a nice slice of pizza and a coke before taking a walk and finally, I floated over to the avenue between the Linq and the Flamingo and hit a cupcake place where I got a really delicious yellow cupcake with chocolate frosting and sprinkles before finishing the day with a another nice walk.

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Faux desert villa in Vegas mall

Nice thing about walking in Las Vegas, you can walk all the way to Egypt.

egypt, luxor, las vegasIt wasn’t a spectacular day, nothing super exciting happened but it was absolutely a day I needed.  I accomplished the one little errand I needed to get done, hung out with my cool little cousins, I ate really good food, had a cupcake, had fun gambling and got a good nights sleep.  A nice mellow and really happy day to kick off my next adventure, hope you’re having happy days as well my friends.  ~ Rev Kane

 

 

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Happiness is being a good person

Happiness is being a good person

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A good person can make another person good; it means that goodness will elicit goodness in the society; other persons will also be good. ~ Bhumibol Adulyadej

I really struggled with whether or not to use this title, I try to avoid being too judgmental in my Ministry of Happiness posts. However, I decided to go with the title because I think you’ll see, the things I’m talking about are not really up for debate. What I want to talk about tonight are not the big things like being honest or kind but more of the little things. I think all too often when we think of goals or positive things to do in life we have a tendency to be a bit grandiose. Then, because grandiose things are very hard to accomplish, we end up either not completing our goals or worse, not even starting because of the scale of the job ahead of us.

So tonight just a small reminder of all of the small things we can do to be better people. What inspired this post was something I witnessed in a Chinese restaurant the other day. While eating my lunch a gentleman came in to pick up his takeout order. While picking through the basket of condiments to take home he noticed a packet of sauce at his feet. I did not see if he dropped it there or if someone else had, but his solution upon noticing it was to kick it out of the way.

Now, if he didn’t drop it, it’s not his responsibility to pick it up, I can envision that comment coming from a lot of you. However that is exactly the point of my post tonight, if we want to be a good person, not just an average, but an above average good person, sometimes we’ll need to take on things that are not our responsibility, things that we make our responsibility just so we can make this a better world. Now that last bit sounds grandiose but grandiose things can be built by many, many people adding just one brick to the structure. So here are some suggestions of how you can go right out, right now and make this a better world and by doing so, be a better, and yes, a happier person.

Pick up a piece of litter.

Hold the door open for someone, or say thank you to someone who holds it for you.

Smile at everyone you see today, sure, some people may scowl but you just might make someone’s day

Tell the cashier when he or she gives you the incorrect change, it will make the end of their day much better.

Pay for the toll of the car behind you or the next person’s coffee.

Give 5 hugs today.

The next time you see someone short on cash in a line, pay for the item(s) they’re short on.

Clean out the lint trap on the dryer or empty the dishwasher.

Let someone go in front of you in line.

Bring donuts into the office for no special reason or bake someone a cake.

Let someone who has done something stupid off the hook, instead of getting mad at them.

Conduct a random act of kindness.

Give a waiter or waitress a huge tip.

Tell someone if they’ve done a really good job, or make a point to give 5 sincere compliments today

These are just a few ideas, hopefully you get my point. If people were all just a little bit kinder to each other, a little bit more patient we’d all have happier days my friends          ~ Rev Kane

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