Happy New Year !!!

Happy New Year !!!

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Genuine beginnings begin within us, even when they are brought to our attention by external opportunities. ~ William Throsby Bridges

Happy New Year my friends, I’ve seen a lot of posts this New Year’s Eve from people saying good riddance to the year and looking forward to the next. These posts make me a bit sad. I know for a lot of people very hard and horrible things have happened this year. Some of you have suffered incredible losses, personally I know this year was hard for my family with the passing of my Uncle, a really wonderful man.

Even tonight as a I write this my mother is in the hospital and not doing well and perhaps even harder, my sister is with her watching, helpless other than providing comfort. There may be nothing harder than watching a loved one in pain.

As human beings we often focus far too much on the bad things, our pain, our losses. No matter how hard 2014 was for you, I’m sure there were good things as well, this is why I posted the other night about the jar of good things.

Don’t start 2015 lamenting and focusing on the bad things, remember the good things as well, it was a year like any other, it was full of the good and the bad. But each year was beautiful, each year made us happy and each year taught us things. So stay positive and have 365 happy days my friends or as many as you can have.

Happy New Year! ~ Rev Kane

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Some Thoughts on Happiness, a Why to my Appalachian Trail (AT) Walk

Some Thoughts on Happiness, a Why to my Appalachian Trail (AT) Walk

happiness, starsWhen you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it. ~ Paulo Coehlo

Originally posted 12/14/2014

As many of you know I’ve quit my job, sold my house and am traveling across the United States towards my appointed start date of February 26th to do a thru-hike of the Appalachian Trail (AT) from Springer Mountain, GA to Mount Kathadin, ME (2189 miles). ~ Rev Kane

So one of the things I love about being in the desert is the impact it has on my mind, the desert makes me contemplative. Perhaps it’s the openness of the environment or perhaps the harshness. Although desert camping drives a high level of focus on everything from highly variable weather, to the need to drink a lot of water, to the dangerous critters that abound, I find it to be a calming environment for me. My mind wanders and drifts to deeper than normal thoughts when I’m out there.

This particular trip also found me decompressing from my old life and transitioning into a period of travel and long-distance walking. This also leads to a little more contemplation than normal. So of course to add to this state of mind I’ve been reading two books, Paulo Coehlo’s The Alchemist and Viktor Frankl’s Man’s Search for Meaning. Two well-reviewed and excellent books that I’ve known about for a long time, have owned for some time, but have never read.

happiness, desertMy focus in reading them will surprise no one, it is to delve even deeper into the idea of what happiness is, and what really makes people happy. I had a number of thoughts while reading these books and the first revelation was a bit disconcerting.

People will more readily believe a fantasy about their life, rather than deal with its reality.

I see this all of the time, but the place I see it most often and most appropriate to me at this time, is the fantasy about people pursuing their dreams when they retire. I’ll use the example of thru-hiking the Appalachian Trail (AT), many people have this on their bucket list. However, life gets in the way, job, kids and the myriad of day to day responsibilities we have. However thru-hiking the AT is a grueling physical task, and how many of us at 60 (if we’re lucky) or 65 (more likely) when we retire are still physically able to take on a six month, 2200 mile hike? There are some, some really amazing folks, but most of us are not at our peak physical condition at that age. This is one of the reasons I’m doing it at 50 and not waiting.

This may be an extreme example but I hear people talking all of the time about how they’d like to go here, or do that but not this year, maybe next year, oh well maybe the year after that. Time goes by far too quickly my friends and soon it’s five or ten years down the road. How many times has this already happened to all of us?

The second big revelation that I gained from these two books was a confirmation of something I think we all know.

That having a purpose in life gives life meaning, makes you happy and keeps you alive.

The thing that I learned about this idea from reading Viktor E Frankl’s book was that the idea of meaning and purpose in life does not have to be grandiose. If someone can find hope, purpose, hell even beauty in the midst of a Nazi concentration camp, it can’t be that hard to find in everyday life. Frankl talks about the biggies that give us purpose, children, love, basically responsibility to others. But he demonstrates through the most brutal of circumstances of life what man is capable of being. How he can find beauty in a sunset, or the light coming through the forest. How he can laugh even if he believes he’s days from the gas chamber or doesn’t know if his family is alive or dead.

Your purpose in life doesn’t need to be creating world peace, becoming wealthy or famous, becoming the President of the United States. Your purpose can be being a good parent, a kind person, someone who appreciates life. It comes back to something we hear time and time again, it is not our circumstances that determine our happiness, it is the decision we make, our responses to these circumstances. Frankl said it much more poetically.

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My final thought tonight, if you are struggling, find some meaning, think less about the how of life and more about the why. Right now, my focus, my why is to achieve my goal, to hike the Appalachian Trail (AT) for as long as I can, for as far as I get. The big goal, the grand achievement is to complete all 2200 miles, but the oil on the spoon is to enjoy each day I’m out there and appreciate the freedom I’ve created for myself right now. So define your why and you’ll have a happy day my friends ~ Rev Kane

The secret of happiness is to see all the marvels of the world, and never to forget the drops of oil on the spoon ~ Paulo Coehlo

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Happiness in the Dunes

Happiness in the Dunes

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All journeys have secret destinations of which the traveler is unaware.     ~ Martin Buber

As many of you know I’ve quit my job, sold my house and am traveling across the United States towards my appointed start date of February 26th to do a thru-hike of the Appalachian Trail (AT) from Springer Mountain, GA to Mount Katahdin, ME (2189 miles).  This is another post from the road.

I’ll be posting later today and tomorrow about my experiences over the last five days at Anza-Borrego State Park in California, but this morning I wanted to write about a surprise I got yesterday as I drove from CA to AZ.

Anza-Borrego is located in the Colorado Desert and is typical shrub land, sandy and rocky desert with creosote and lavender bushes, ocotillo and a number of different cacti.  Here are a few photos I shot there over the last five days.

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While camping in Anza-Borrego, a friend who happened to be camping in the same campground, mentioned to me that after Christmas the area became full of off-road vehicle enthusiast. It was a piece of information I didn’t pay much attention to at the time. However, while driving down Highway 78 I started to get a full understanding of the scope of what my friend was talking about.

First I hit the Ocotillo Wells off-road vehicle recreation area as my friend had mentioned there were already little RV encampments and lots of off-roaders tooling around on motorcycles, sand rails and off-road trucks.

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The sights at Ocotillo were impressive but was nothing compared to what I would find another half-hour down the road at Imperial Sand Dunes area run by the Bureau of Land Management and the Glamis Sand Dunes   I pulled off on an overlook and damn near got my vehicle stuck in the sand, but took the following photos of the dunes and the riders.

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It’s amazing all of the little sub-cultures and areas of the United States that exist, one of the reasons I love traveling so much are these little surprises. So go out and find something new today and have a happy day my friends! ~ Rev Kane

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Happiness on the Road

Happiness on the Road

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Scary gnome in my aunt’s yard

After leaving the coast I’ve headed south to San Diego to visit family and the scariest garden gnome in America.  I got to meet my youngest cousin yesterday, he’s an adorable little guy with a great smile and big belly laugh.

Tonight I am with my aunt, my granny and the smoochy monster in the hills outside of San Diego.   Wonderful food and time spent with all of them.   Tomorrow I head for the desert and a week of camping, hiking and bright starry nights.

It’s great to be on the road, enjoying good food, family and freedom.  I hope you had a happy day my friends – Rev Kane

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Some quick thanks!!

Some quick thanks!!

happinessSo as I’ve written about, I’ve spent some time doing some training hikes in the Armstrong Reserve in Guerneville, CA and during those times I stayed at a wonderful little place call The Fern Grove Cottages, lovely little cottages in the Redwoods and super nice and friendly proprietors so my thanks to them!

happinessSecondly a big thanks to Dobson’s Sweet Treats & Meats for taking such good care of me back in Rocklin, great BBQ and awesome fudge, ebony and ivory fookie is the best!  Plus they gave me this rockin hat!

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Rockin the Fudge-a-licious hat

Thanks to all of these folks, may they all have happy days ~ Rev Kane

 

 

 

 

 

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Thank you for 15,000 views!!!

Thank you for 15,000 views!!!

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Four years ago I started the Ministry of Happiness, things started a bit slow, in the first four months we got about 800 views.  Over the next three years things got steadily better, increasing to 8000 views for 2013.  In 2014 we kicked up our game a bit and for this year the goal has been to post every day, so far we’ve made it and there have been some great results.  When we began this year we had about 350 likes on Facebook and around 700 Twitter followers.  So our goals for 2014 were to make 500 likes on Facebook, 1000 Twitter followers and 10,000 views on the blog.

Thanks to you my friends we’ve exceeded all of our goals, we are at 2280 likes on Facebook, almost 1400 followers on Twitter and yesterday we hit 15,000 views on the blog!

Thank you, thank you my friends, I hope we’ve made a difference and helped you have happier days my friends and we look forward to a wonderful new year  ~ Rev Kane

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On the Road Again – Metamorphosis

On the Road Again – Metamorphosis

happiness, changeSo it is truly impossible for me to start a journey without Willie Nelson ringing in my ears, thanks Willie! But today I left my old life, I wrote yesterday about the trip details, but today I wanted to talk about the internal trip.

First some thanks are in order, to all the folks that threw me going away shindigs, bought me a beer, lunch and especially the particularly relevant gifted REI cards, thank you.

My wonderful friend and massage therapist KC, not only has she kept my body in great shape, but became an awesome friend and even bought my house, how’s that for friendship!

My friend Steve, dude is the best, gave me a place to stay for my last few weeks in town and over the last few years has been a great friend and colleague.

happiness, changeOver the last few years my job has sucked, basically the institution I was working for was totally in neutral, the executives saw questioning as dissent and basically ran down anything I put forward. There was absolutely no surprise when they denied my leave of absence request, basically their way of saying we don’t really want you here. It was time to go and the silver lining, no leave, means no return date which in return grants me massive freedom for this journey and no safety net. I once heard Eddie Murphy talk about why he was successful, his point quite simply, he had no safety net, failure was not an option. It’s kind of how I feel right now.

I’m happy to be closing a chapter and opening, hopefully fully authoring the next one. Scared senseless, of course, but the fear pales in comparison to the possibilities and the excitement. I’m a gypsy, this is what I was born and destined to be, to do. It’s not a typical or an easy life, but it’s an amazing one that has led me everywhere, through all kinds of amazing adventures. I’m never bored.

happiness, changeSo what does this next chapter hold? We’ll see, the goal is to hike the Appalachian Trail, Georgia to Maine, but there are thousands of miles and 70 plus days before that starts.
As a gypsy my friends are seldom near, I cherish the times I do get to be near them, face to face, but that is not my path. So I work hard to keep in touch, to bring them with me in so many ways on my journeys, this blog serves to do that as well. I’ll see some I haven’t seen in a while as I travel. Those will be special days.

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So tonight, a sense of melancholy as I transition, a tingle of excitement as I daydream and think about what is to come, whatever it is, they will be happy days. And as always, I hope for nothing more than happy days for you my friends ~ Rev Kane

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And so it begins, Appalachian Trail (AT) or bust!

And so it begins, Appalachian Trail (AT) or bust!

 

happiness, appalachian trailWherever you go, go with all your heart ~ Confucius

Hello friends, if you’ve been regularly reading the Ministry of Happiness blog you know that I’ve been talking a lot lately about embarking on a big adventure. Well, it officially started, as of today I have no actual address, no job, the house has been sold and I’m sitting in a cabin in the redwoods in Northern California. I’m up here for a few days of hiking, I haven’t done much the last few weeks and given I start hiking the Appalachian Trail in about 70 days, it’s time to really start focusing on being ready.

So for those of you following along here’s my itinerary from now until that start date.
3 days in the redwoods
2 days in Monterrey
2 days in the San Diego area

Starting next Sunday I start rolling east, my first stop will be Borrego Springs for a night, then:
5 days in Anza Borrego State Park
1 night in Indio
1 night in the Painted Desert area
3 in the Kofa National Wildlife Refuge

Then, well then things are kind of up in the air, I may head up to the Prescott National forest and then Taos or I may make a more direct line for the Dallas area to see some friends. Past that my plans take me through Arkansas and hopefully a night or two in Hot Springs, AK. Then through TN with a stop in Knoxville and possibly further east into North Carolina. I’ll turn northeastward and parallel the Appalachian Trail up through to NY, stopping in some trail towns and doing some day hikes on the AT. After that a few weeks with family NY, some snow and ice hiking and dialing in on how to sleep warm enough in my hammock.

Finally, a bus or train to Atlanta, a couple last days sleeping in a bed then up to Springer Mountain via Amicalola State Park. The AT is not for the faint of heart, the very first mile has 800 feet of elevation gain, the first 7 miles, which really only gets you to the official start of the trail, 1600 feet of gain.

So that’s where I’m going, the plan, the beginning of the goal, tomorrow night a bit about how I’m feeling, here’s a hint, this is the Ministry of Happiness! I hope you are doing well on your own personal journeys my friends, drop me a comment and let me know and most importantly, have a happy day my friends ~ Rev Kane

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Happy News – December 10, 2014

Happy News – December 10, 2014

 

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Happiness often sneaks in through a door you didn’t know you left open. ~ John Barrymore

NFL Player gives up 37 million dollar contract to grow food for the hungry

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Appalachian Trail (AT) Happiness: Second Test Hike

Appalachian Trail (AT) Happiness: Second Test Hike

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Keep close to Nature’s heart… and break clear away, once in awhile, and climb a mountain or spend a week in the woods. Wash your spirit clean. ~ John Muir

So from my first test I learned a lot about how my body would respond to the stress of hiking the Appalachian Trail (AT). One thing I found out was that my hip abductors were weak so I started hitting the hip machines. The other thing I became concerned with was how could I work the muscles needed to descend because they had been incredibly sore. In doing some research I found out something surprising, the elliptical machines in the gym, when operated in reverse, hit the muscles you use descending. I was a bit skeptical but one session and I was convinced and so I switched up my gym routine to include these new workouts.

So I headed back up to the Armstrong Reserve I talked about in my first test hike post and this time the plan was to do 5 days in a row. I was curious to see how I would respond after really upping the intensity of my gym workouts including targeting some areas I discovered needed work during the first test hike. At the gym my workouts have including three consecutive days with one to days off afterword. The first day is a high intensity 75 minute workout, 25 minutes on the stair machine (level 9), 25 minutes on the elliptical (forward – level 22) and 25 minutes on the tread mill (15 degree incline and 3.2 miles per hour). This workout burns over a 1000 calories. The second workout is strength focused, hip abductors, biceps, deltoids, bench press, a couple of back workouts and squats. The third day is a longer and lighter version of day one, same workouts at lower intensity but also I alternate the elliptical modes 3 minutes forward and 3 minutes reverse, all of these workouts are 30 minutes in length.

Day 1

As always a hectic three hour drive from home and then right to the trail head. A quick nearly six mile loop, the same loop I did on Day 1 last time. Obviously training has had some impact, I did the loop a little bit faster with a pack about 5 pounds heavier than last time and I cut about 20 minutes off of the loop. That first night I felt good as I sat in front of the fire place in the cottage I had rented.

The most beautiful thing I saw today was a spread of bright yellow leaves framed against the rich dark soil.

happiness, hikingWhat I learned was that my training was working at least a little bit, Days 2 and 3 would tell a lot more.

What made me happy today was being out on the trail, I’ve been so busy with selling my house, packing, wrapping up my job it felt absolutely great to be doing nothing but walk! I also met a couple of other hikers, not tourists, but hikers who are also traveling nurses. It’s always great to run into fellow hikers and have those wonderful trail conversations you always have.

Day 2

Woke up and I could tell I walked the day before but wasn’t particularly sore. I did a long loop around 8 miles up the Pool Ridge trail to the Gilliam Trail Head and back down. It was a good workout, I had obviously strained something or tweaked a nerve on the inside of my thigh. It didn’t constantly hurt but it would tweak out and cause me a really sharp pain every time the terrain flattened out, a couple of the times quite badly but it was really intermittent and so I motored through.

Motor was the word of the day, a little over 8 miles in less than four hours with a 35 pound pack and about 2000 feet in elevation gain. I was a little more tender at the end of Day 2 than Day 1 and went to bed a little tentatively wondering what the morning would bring as far as how physically sore I would be.

The most beautiful thing I saw on Day 2 was the view down the valley when I hit the high point of the hike, a beautiful sunny day with fog flowing up out of a valley in the distance.

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What I learned on Day 2 was that my training was working, I felt a lot better descending and at the end of the hike didn’t feel bad, as a matter of fact the last mile or two I was actually cranking along and smiling I felt so good.

What made me happy today was that I was able to stop a number of times and experience natural quiet. A point where you can hear nothing man made what so ever, there isn’t much more relaxing than standing in a dark redwood forest hearing nothing but the sounds of nature.

Day 3

Today I came up the backside of the hike I had done on Day 2 and the last mile is an amazingly steep and consistent climb. The nerve I had tweaked the day before seems to have calmed down. I walked the entire climb with one small break, marking myself against the last time I did this climb where I had several stops. I felt good, a little faster than I had expected to be although nothing anyone would consider speedy. I stopped and had a really pleasant lunch, I had forgotten I had thrown in a couple of peanut butter cookies and it was a very happy surprise.

The walk down was pleasant and fast, I must be feeling really comfortable in the grove as when I hit the valley floor and the wave of tourists I’m suddenly getting peppered with questions about the park. I happily answer them as I walk along, a really great day.

The most beautiful thing I saw today was a friendship. Two friends who I leap frogged on the trail, one an avid hiker the other being pushed a bit. At the top of the trail they stopped for lunch where I did and I heard the newbie thank her friend for pushing her.

What I learned today? My preparation is really on track, I feel good and am starting to pick up my speed.

What made me happy today was really starting to feel like the smallest bit of a thru-hiker, getting back into the multi-day hiking swing of things.

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Day 4

A reverse of the previous days hike, a fast and comfortable 8 miles and I really feel like I’m hitting my stride. The most beautiful thing I saw today was a really brightly colored garden snake, about a foot and a half long and skirting along a little rock face.

What I learned today was how different life on the trail is for some of us. A lot of tourists today and they are loud and bouncy and really not taking time to soak in the surroundings. Not a judgment but a really different experience than the one I’m after.

What made me happy today was walking my fourth day over big hills with little pain, I’m tired but I feel really good.

happiness, hikingDay 5 is a quick little 6 mile loop before I make the drive home. The most beautiful thing I saw today was the Russian River as I crossed it, really calm and beautiful. What did I learn today, I guess that transition days suck, already missing the trail as I drive home. What made me happy today was just the knowledge that I’ve done nearly the equivalent of what I’ll do from start til my first reply on the AT, I feel good about my progress and am starting to get excited for the real deal and many happy days my friends ~ Rev Kane

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