Wisdom from his holiness, both of them and of course Steve

I have a sweet tooth for song and music. This is my Polish sin.
Pope John Paul II

I really like what the Dalai Lama has to say on most issues.  He seems like someone I would really love to have a one-on-one conversation with, someone who could give you some amazing feedback and counterpoint to the way you see the world.  I’ve seen documentaries featuring him and even talked to the director of one of them who somewhat confirmed this idea.  Then, while hiking in the Himalayas last year I was fortunate enough to hike with one of the most amazing people I’ve ever met, a Hungarian woman named Kati, so naturally we called her Steve.  Amazingly she embraced Steve and for any Tao of Steve fans, her innate Steveness.  Well, of course, Steve had actually been fortunate enough to have spent thirty-minutes with his holiness and fully confirmed how amazing that experience was for her.  In my life I’ve had two people described to me a person who seemed to emanate light and peace.  The first was a description of Pope John Paul the second by my aunt a nun and the second was Steve’s description of the Dalai Lama.

So for your little bit of happiness today I give you quotes from both:

To develop a sense of universal responsibility – of the universal dimension of our every act and of the equal right of all others to happiness and not to suffer – is to develop an attitude of mind whereby, when we see an opportunity to benefit others, we will take it in preference to merely looking after our own narrow interests.

~Dalai Lama

 

 

Love is never defeated, and I could add, the history of Ireland proves it.
Pope John Paul II

 

 

My true religion, my simple faith is in love and compassion. There is no need for complicated philosophy, doctrine, or dogma. Our own heart, our own mind, is the temple. The doctrine is compassion. Love for others and respect for their rights and dignity, no matter who or what they are – these are ultimately all we need.

~Dalai Lama

 

To maintain a joyful family requires much from both the parents and the children. Each member of the family has to become, in a special way, the servant of the others.
Pope John Paul II

 

The simple recognition that everyone else wants to be happy and not to suffer, just as I do, serves as a constant reminder against selfishness and partiality. It reminds us there is little to be gained from being kind and generous while hoping to win something in return. Actions motivated by a desire to earn a good name for ourselves are still selfish, even if they appear to acts of kindness

~Dalai Lama

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Happiness Resources: Interesting Sites

Happiness Resources: Interesting Sites

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Did a little digging around on the net to come up with a few resources to help you along your path to happiness.  Each link is posted with a little description of what the site is about have a happy day my friends                     ~ Rev Kane

Greater Good

This blog is mostly science-based parenting advice. I’m a sociologist and happiness expert at UC Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center, and since I’m reading all the research related to raising happy children anyway, I thought we might as well make it useable to parents. My intention is to bring a scientific framing (what does the research actually say?) to our opinion-based parenting debates and advice.  As a parent myself, I know that sorting fact from fiction can be confusing when it comes to parenting.

Positivity Blog

The Positivity Blog is focused on positivity and opening up new possibilities for happiness and awesomeness through motivating and practical articles on how to improve your life.

The Art of Loving Yourself

The Art of Loving Yourself is the Guide for the  LIVING THE BEST TIME of Your life! It is written to bring your lost smile back on your face. Explore and understand yourself. And don’t forget to share this site with the world because its the best kept secret that only sharing and giving brings the most love in life. Start to share and give others whatever you have. Do not control yourself. If you see deep down in your heart, you want to share but you don’t share because it feels you are being cheated. Share for yourself and your happiness, not for others. Forget your dead past and start a new life today.

Everyday Happiness Blog

Joy is important. Joy needs to be experienced. Then, joy needs to be spread around. These simple, easy ways to have fun with life are sure to bring more joy to you.

Zen Habits

Zen Habits is about finding simplicity in the daily chaos of our lives. It’s about clearing the clutter so we can focus on what’s important, create something amazing, find happiness.It also happens to be one of the Top 25 blogs in the world, with about 200,000 readers, is uncopyrighted, and goes well with anything chocolate. Zen Habits features three powerful articles a week on: simplicity, health & fitness, motivation and inspiration, frugality, family life, happiness, goals, getting great things done, and living in the moment

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Advice from the Dalai Lama

As long as we observe love for others and respect for their rights and dignity in our daily lives, then whether we are learned or unlearned, whether we believe in the Buddha or God, follow some religion or none at all, as long as we have compassion for others and conduct ourselves with restraint out of a sense of responsibility, there is no doubt we will be happy.

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The Wisdom of Children

The Wisdom of Children

Jumping for joy is good exercise.   ~Author Unknown

I was once involved in a long distance relationship, one that had taken me quite by surprised and a relationship which burned hotter than I ever expected.  I had fallen in love with an incredible woman, mostly through online conversations.  We had a brief period of time together before I had moved away from her and literally across the country.  As the relationship developed the time had come for me to visit, the trip was planned and I was both excited and quite frankly nervous as hell.  At work, days before I was to leave for the trip I got a simple e-mail telling me not to come, no explanation, just that it wasn’t right.  I was blind-sided and devastated and unfortunately at work.  I bolted out of my office, no real direction in mind but I needed to move to just not be in one place and I walked.  I walked for almost an hour and the energy that was driving my steps was not subsiding but I had to return to my office.

As I came back through the center of campus on the main quad there was a little girl about six years old hopping like a bunny on the lawn with her grandmother watching.  She looked at me and said hello and I did the same and then she stared right into my eyes and said, “you need to come hop with me.”  It was utterly ridiculous, my world had just shattered, my heart-broken, energy bubbled and flowed out of me like a volcano but this little girl was taking me, my pain, my energy, my suit and tie and my hand, and leading me out onto the lawn.  Then, we began to hop, and as I hopped the weight began to lift, the pain subside, and we hopped like mad people on the lawn in the center of campus.  I didn’t care what I looked like, or how ridiculous the situation was, it just felt wonderful to hop.

I thanked that little girl for what she did for me and I walked on to my office.  I still hurt, my heart was still broken but that little girl had done me a magnificent service.  The lesson I took away from that meeting was that sometimes the greatest wisdom can come from a child.  So my friends don’t forget to look to the little ones when you need an answer.

Keep me away from the wisdom which does not cry, the philosophy which does not laugh and the greatness which does not bow before children.
~Kahlil Gibran

 

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Existential Boredom

Existential Boredom

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Dho Assembly in the Potola Palace, Tibet

Time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time ~ Marthe Troly-Curtin

So existential boredom is a term I thought I came up with, unfortunately after doing a little research I’ve come to realize that I wasn’t the first to get there.  Happily, the definition I’ve read isn’t too far off from the one I’d imagined.  Essentially, I use this term to describe the idea that the passion has gone from someone’s life.  Most of the definitions I read connect this mood to the idea that you have decided that life is pointless or meaningless.  To me, that idea seems a little too freshman philosophy class and way too depressing.

For me existential boredom is where I find myself right now, I have a great life, people who care about me, good health, sufficient finances to do the things I want to do and a good job.  I also count myself lucky for my time with you my friends and the opportunity to help a bit with other people’s happiness.  My existential boredom is that right now I don’t have anything I truly feel passionate about.  I have a range of things I enjoy, but nothing that is the first thought when I wake up in the morning, the last at night.

I liken it to someone you go out on a couple of dates with, you have a good time but they just don’t flip that switch, drive you too insanity.  So right now that is the thing I’m looking for to add to my happiness, to find that one thing I can be truly passionate about each and every day.

This is the one aspect of Gretchen Rubin’s Happiness Project

that I really admire, that once she identified the reality that the, “days are long and the years are short,” she attacked her life with purpose.  I continue to work toward that same process and hopefully sharing my journey can help you with yours.

In starting down this new path I found a piece in the most unlikely of places that I really like and seems to be a helpful starting point, check it out.  Five Creativity Exercises to find your Passion

And as always, have a happy day my friends ~ Rev Kane

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