Krewe of the Bosom Buddies – 2020

Krewe of the Bosom Buddies2020

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Mardi Gras, baby. Mardi Gras. Time when all manner of weird shit cuts loose and parties down. ~ Sherrilyn Kenyon

At Mardi Gras, one of my favorite parades is a walking parade in the French Quarter named the Krewe of the Bosom Buddies and Breast Friends.  I first encountered this Krewe in 2016 when I photographed them.

So this year I was really excited for an opportunity to shoot them again.  This is a joyous walking krewe that parades a loop down Bourbon Street and through the French Quarter.  The theme this year might of been Wheel of Fortune but I’m not really positive.  A great moment I had was being quizzed by one of the Krewe about Dr. Who.  I failed, but she gave me a pin from her hat anyway.

 

bosom buddies, mardi gras bosom buddies, mardi grasIt’s a great little parade and I had a blast photographing it as usual.  So enjoy the photos below, starting with the parade leader.

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As always, have a happy day my friends. ~ Rev Kane

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Happiness is Achievement!

Happiness is Achievement!

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Tonight we have a guest blogger, the fabulous Mr. Rich Krissel. Rich and I go back many years to when we were resident assistants together in college. He’s an excellent photographer, a deep thinker and always someone who has thoughtful and interesting ideas. To that end, we were talking the other day and this post is the result, I really appreciate him taking time to share his thoughts. Give a read, enjoy and have a happy day my friends ~ Rev Kane

Rev Kane and I were talking about the different sources happiness, and he asked that I relay this story:

Last week a colleague rushed up to me insisting that I follow him back to his desk so he could show me something. He was bubbling with kid-like enthusiasm. I knew he had been struggling for months trying to figure out a solution to the pressure his group was under to speed up the design and hand-off of turbine blades.

Management wanted the 3-day process to go down to 2 days. “This morning,” Tim excitedly explained, “I figured out the last piece of automation that gets the process down to just 6 hours!” He was beaming with pride from his own creation, and it was infectious. (His coworkers were pretty happy with the outcome too!).

When I spend a lot of time figuring out a song on guitar, and finally get it it is freakin’ awesome. Remember how it feels to finish a college degree, or getting hired for a job – knowing all your hard work paid off? It is a major high. Man, even when I finish mowing my lawn, I always pause for a moment to admire the beauty of my efforts.

I think many people overlook this source of happiness – but achievement is built into your DNA. Humans are industrious beings, and great satisfaction comes from invention and creation (usually to the benefit of others).

So, unleash the power of your mind and GO DO something GREAT because the world needs you.

Achievement – It’ll make you happy – I promise. ~ Rich Krissel

 

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Happiness in Times of Epidemics, Quarantines and Coronavirus (Covid-19)

Happiness in Times of Epidemics, Quarantines and Coronavirus (Covid-19)

coronavirus, covid-19, wuhanMasses are always breeding grounds for psychic epidemics ~ Carl Jung

So tonight’s post is a little different type of post for the Ministry of Happiness.  You see our happiness is greatly impacted by stress and worry.  And the current global epidemic that is likely to soon officially be labelled a pandemic is certainly causing a lot of people to worry and be stressed.  So tonight I hope to do what I can do to help you with that worry and stress by providing you solid information and advice.

Coronavirus (Covid-19)

Yes, the coronavirus, also known as Covid-19 is a serious disease.  Coronavirus is a category of viruses that includes the viruses that cause the diseases SARS and MERS. Both of these diseases and the current coronavirus are serious respiratory diseases that are more deadly than the common flu viruses we see every year.  Coronavirus may also be more contagious than the flu, but this has yet to be confirmed.  However, given the significant response to the virus by governments around the world and the lower number of current infections.  YOU ARE, AT THIS TIME, FAR LESS LIKELY TO CATCH THE CORONAVIRUS THAN THE FLU.  Also, the people that have died so far from the disease have generally been people with additional conditions, something the medical field calls co-morbidities.  So people over the age of 60 and those with high blood pressure, diabetes or heart disease are at a higher risk.  Younger healthy people, even if infected, are likely to survive the coronavirus and currently the majority of the infections have been less than serious.

Now for me, a 55 year-old guy with all three of the co-morbidities listed above (high blood pressure, diabetes and a heart condition) I’m at a higher risk of death from this disease. So why am I not afraid?  The reasons start with history.

The Spanish Flu Pandemic of 1918

The Spanish Flu Pandemic of 1918 infected one-third of all of the people on Earth, over 500 million people.  It killed somewhere between 20 and 50 million people including over 675,000 Americans.  It was the most deadly epidemic that has ever hit the United States of America.  The biological and medical communities have known for a long time that it was inevitable that there would be another global pandemic.  If you want to read more in depth, there’s a great book called, The Coming Plague by Laura Garrett.  There was fear that SARS would be that pandemic, it turned out not to be.  It’s possible that Covid-19 will be that pandemic. If this disease continues to appear in more and more countries, and particularly if growing disease clusters occur in many countries like they have in South Korea and Italy, this is that pandemic.  The only issue then becomes how severe will it be.

The world is very different in 2020 than it was in 1918.  First off we have much better medicine and medical technology.  We have antibiotics which would be given to anyone who is sick which stops secondary infections from killing those who get sick.  We have ventilators that can help sick people breathe and increase their potential for surviving the disease.  Our communication technology is better, so vital information can get to people more easily.  That means that accurate info as well as directions related to quarantine rules can reach everyone.  These factors should mean that we’re better suited for a pandemic not to kill 10% of those infected.  It will still be serious, but likely not as serious as the 1918 pandemic.  This is one reason I’m not so afraid of this disease.

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Another reason I’m not so afraid is that we know how to behave better than we have in the past.  There is lots of good information out there about how to most effectively protect yourself against getting sick.  So let’s talk about what some of those things are.  According to the World Health Organization the following things are crucial to keeping yourself healthy and that includes colds and flues as well as the coronavirus.

Wash your hands frequently – and do it correctly.  This means washing with soap, and washing hands thoroughly, backs and fronts, between your fingers and for long enough.  Singing through the song Happy Birthday all the way through is a good way to time it.

Maintain social distancing – when you or someone else is coughing or sneezing, try to generally keep at least three feet to keep from having tiny droplets travel from one person to another.  Breathing in these tiny droplets is the most likely way to get infected.

Avoid touching your face – particularly your eyes, nose or mouth.  Virus typically makes its way to your hands first, then gets transferred to you when you touch your face.

If you get sick isolate yourself and get medical attention early – If you feel ill stay away from other people and if you have a fever, cough and difficulty breathing, get to a medical professional, your doctor, the ER or Urgent Care and get checked out.

Notice what isn’t in that advice, wear a mask.  You don’t need to wear a mask if you do what’s above, except if you’re around sick people.  Or, if you are sick yourself to keep you from infecting others.  And importantly, unless you are using an N95 mask, you are just as well off wearing a bandana over your face.

It’s important to also keep the surfaces you encounter clean.  So wipe down counters, tables and other surfaces.  And remember to appropriately clean your touch screens. On my phone I have a screen protection film on the screen and I wipe that daily with alcohol to clean and kill off any germs.  Be VERY careful though when using anything directly on a laptop or other unprotected touch screen and use something the manufacturer recommends.  Remember to keep your work spaces at work clean and disinfected as well.

For the near future, you may want to consider whether or not being with crowds is a good idea.  If you are in an open air setting, with lots of space, it should be no problem.  As well, any place else you can maintain appropriate social distancing should be ok.  I have a conference next week that I’m still planning on attend.  I also have a trip to Las Vegas at the end of March, I’ll assess whether to not to do that trip based on the situation at the time.  If large clusters of community transferred coronavirus are occurring I’ll personally be very cautious about being around crowds.  For a change being an introvert might turn out to be an advantage.

Do what you normally do to stay healthy?

So in addition to what I talked about above, some of the best things you can do are the things you should normally do to be healthy.  So yes, eat right, exercise and absolutely get enough sleep.  Don’t let worry or stress impact these things.  The better your general health, the better your immune system and the less likely you are to get sick, whether it’s cold, flu or the coronavirus.

What if there are community transferred clusters of Covid 19 or quarantines?

So let’s talk about the semi-worst case scenario.  Let’s say the Bay Area of California, which currently has seven total cases, turns into the type of community transfer outbreak we are seeing in Italy and/or South Korea.  Well what do we do then?  The thing is that public health authorities will be our guide at that point.  Most likely people living in those areas will find schools and/or businesses closed for a couple of weeks to help slow the spread of the disease.  So how should you be prepared?

Bay area folks also live in earthquake and wildfire country and as such should already be somewhat prepared for a disaster situation.  In general what this means is enough supplies to live for a couple of weeks without access to stores.  My recommendations are pretty straightforward.  You should have some water on hand, not that quarantine would mean your water would go off, but it’s always good to have some on hand.  At least a gallon per person for three days.  You should have a couple of weeks worth of food on hand, preferably non-perishable foods.  This means having canned goods, dried beans, rice and pasta on hand.  Top Ramen works great and is very cheap, light, and easy to store.  But if this happens you don’t want to feel like you’re in prison.  So root vegetables (carrots, potatoes, etc…) store well.  A variety of canned food is important, as well as frozen vegetables if you have the space and some meat frozen in the freezer would be nice as well.  I also recommend that you have some powdered drink mixes on hand, they store easy and since you should have access to water, they provide some variety.

It’s also important to have at least a couple of weeks of prescribed medications on hand, some basic first aid kits and given that fever is a symptom for coronavirus it’s always a good idea to have a thermometer on hand so you can have accurate information as to whether or not someone has a fever.  You likely already have cleaning products to keep the surfaces in your house disinfected.

What I don’t believe you need to do, like the folks I’m seeing on videos on the internet, is to run out and by 50 pound bags of rice, cases upon cases of water or enough dehydrated food to live for a month.  From talking with friends who are in China, stores never completely closed there, restaurants still did delivery and only in very rare places was there a complete community lock down that disrupted people’s ability to access these things.

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Don’t Panic

So what’s my best advice around the coronavirus pandemic?

I’m going to steal this advice from one of my favorite authors, Douglas Adams, who wrote the Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy.  On the inside guide of the book are the two most important words in the galaxy, DON’T PANIC.

Seriously, don’t panic, as I’ve written above there are lots of common sense things you can do to keep yourself reasonably safe.  Do these things and you should be fine, your likelihood of getting infected is still extremely low.  Stay prepared and it will make you feel a little less frantic about what’s happening.  Stay away from all of the crazy conspiracy theories on the internet.  The government isn’t using this to take over, 5G wifi is not causing this, the simple fact is disease is a fact of life, and pandemics are inevitable.  It’s been 100 years since the last really significant pandemic.  We’re better prepared then we were then, we’ll fare better.  So again my friends, don’t panic and you’ll have happier days, even during a pandemic. ~ Rev Kane

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Stop Preventing Your Own Happiness

Stop Preventing Your Own Happiness

happiness Until you are happy with who you are, you will never be happy with what you have.~Zig Ziglar

So a lot comes screaming across social media and every once in awhile something really good comes by and one today was a piece about the things we do to ourselves that holds us back.  It’s a piece entitled, Thirty Things to Stop Doing to Yourself.

I particularly liked the following pieces of advice the author shared.

1. Stop spending time with the wrong people.

Your environment means a lot and surrounding yourself with the wrong people can really impede your pursuit of happiness.

2. Stop trying to be someone you’re not.

Becoming the person you want to be, revealing your inner beauty is a key to your happiness.

3. Stop trying to buy happiness

Very often the simplest and free things in life will lead to the most happiness.

Give the piece a read my friends, I think you’ll enjoy it, and have a happy day my friends ~ Rev Kane

 

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On Hiking Alone

On Hiking Alone

01I really like this quote, thanks to my sister for sharing it with me. There has been a lot of talk in comment sections, in the NY Times and on Social Media about the woman who died in Maine. A lot of people are posting reminders, never hike alone, it’s not safe. Let’s understand something, hiking is inherently not safe, you can ask a lot of my hiking friends, or me for that matter. Hiking is a dangerous activity one misstep can lead to damaged, knees, backs, bones or even death. We talked about this a lot on the Appalachian Trail last year.  A wrong turn can get you lost and in some places lost for good. You can get bit by poisonous snakes, mosquitoes (the most dangerous), bears, or mountain lions.  But I’ll tell you this, sitting on the couch will kill you a hell of a lot faster and in less pleasurable surroundings.

fix nh1 colorIt’s not always possible to have a hiking partner and most day hikes are unbelievably safe, at least as safe as any hike can be.  There are also some serious benefits to hiking alone, you’re quieter so you see a lot more wildlife.  You get to be alone with your thoughts and even find natural quiet.  You get to pick your own pace and control how far and how hard you go without inconveniencing anyone else.

fix nh2Now, there are trade offs, there always are, hiking alone is more dangerous and remote hiking can exponentially increase that danger.  I just think in most places, on most days, the trade offs are acceptable, but my eyes are wide open and yours should be as well.  If I die on a hike because I’m alone, I’m good with that, not the dying part, the fact that I willingly put myself in that situation and knew the potential consequences.

3 q day 1More important than having a hiking partner, in my estimation, is preparation.  I think a solo well-prepared hiker is safer than a pair of unprepared hikers.  You should know the area, at least at a general map level. You should have a map, supplies (yes your pack will be heavier), you should give an itinerary to someone and they should know what time/day means you’re overdue and they should be concerned.  You should have a compass and know how to navigate with it.  Knowing at least a little bit about living off the land is also a good skill to have.  You don’t have to be Suvivor Man/Woman, but you should have some basic skills especially if you are going remote.  Knowing how to properly deal with wildlife like bears, snakes and mountain lions is also a good idea.

KODAK Digital Still CameraNONE OF THIS, is to say that people who have gotten lost or died weren’t prepared.  No matter how prepared you are things can happen that you can’t control.  It’s horribly sad when hikers get lost or injured and end up dead.  So please be prepared, be careful but don’t completely abandon the idea of hiking alone, I’m not going to give it up anytime soon, and I plan on having many happy hiking days. ~ Rev Kane

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Back to the Basics to Be Happy

Back to the Basics to Be Happy

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Do you really want to be happy? You can begin by being appreciative of who you are and what you’ve got. ~ Benjamin Hoff, author – The Tao of Pooh

If you read this blog regularly you know, like others, I suffer through periods where I’m out of sorts and not as happy as I would like to be, life right?  When I write about these times I often mention getting back to the basics to be happy.  It hit me the last time I wrote that, that I’ve never actually done a post on what that means, so here it is tonight.

Getting Back to the Basics

First of all when I say the basics what am I talking about?  I’m talking about the essentials of life, the lower levels of Maslow’s Pyramid if you like.  My short list includes the following; eating, sleeping, exercise, drinking water, shelter, safety and human contact

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Balanced can also be happy

Eating right

Nutrition is incredibly important, so one of the first things you have to ask when you’re feeling out of sorts is are you eating right?  And what does that even mean?  For me, having blood sugar issues it usually means am I laying off of Coca Cola.  But in general the issue is, are you eating in a balanced way.  Are you getting enough protein?  Are your meals of consistent sizes and eaten at consistent times.  Are you eating late at night just before bed or eating things that are leading to upset stomachs or indigestion?  Are you eating enough fruits and vegetables?  And yes I sound like your mom right now, but making sure your diet is balanced lets your body act naturally and do the things it is supposed to do.  Eating right is a great first step to feeling better and it’s a lot easier to be happy if you physically feel good.

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Sleep to be happy

Sleeping

Are you getting enough sleep?  This is a really fundamentally important question for me.  If I’m not getting enough sleep I seem to eat worse, and my mood really starts to tank and can lead me into a bout of the blues pretty quickly.  Sleep is also not always a consistent period, the myth of 8 hours of sleep doesn’t work for everyone.  Some people need less, some people need more.  When I’m exercising regularly and eating well, about seven and a half hours is enough for me.  The worse my diet is the more I need and when I’m eating poorly and my blood sugar is high I often regularly need 9 hours a night.  Having enough sleep is a great way to try to be happy.  A rested brain that has had the chance to recover helps everything look just a little bit better.

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Exercise to be happy?

Exercise

Regular exercise, I know, it’s the last thing you want to hear about, but regular exercise is really crucial to overall health and to help you to be happy.  When you exercise you sleep better, you reduce your stress levels and a myriad of other benefits to regular exercise.

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Even squirrels know to get back to basics.

Drinking water

Probably the easiest way to correct feeling out of sorts sometime is just to drink some water.  Being properly hydrated is something that I pay a lot of attention to as someone who hikes, lives and plays in the desert.  Getting dehydrated can actually  be quite dangerous.  I remember the first time I went to Burning Man, the playa where it is held is hot, dry and at a couple of thousand feet above sea level.  I had driven in from land cool, moist sea air in Monterey, CA.  But being a tough guy I started right in setting up and going hard at getting my camp set up.  A friend and veteran burner kept calmly recommending that I take a break, have a snack, drink some water.  I didn’t listen, at least not until the world began spinning a bit.  Then a chair, a cooking and about 32 ounces of water got things right.  An extreme example I realize but staying hydrated is hugely important.

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Hopefully your shelter is better than this one

Shelter and Safety

This is one that I really hope is a quick check off of everyone’s list. The biggest of the basics a roof over your head is an absolute basic need.  It’s incredibly hard to be happy if you are homeless because not being sheltered from the elements also means you have no safe place to sleep.  These things though have a less literal interpretation though that is equally important.  Are you comfortable in your home, is your home environment free from stress and conflict, is it a refuge from the world or just another place in a storm.  Safety also means psychological safety.  If the place you call home is not someplace you feel safe and sheltered, it’s hard to be happy.

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A hug to be happy

Human Contact

One of the things that gets overlooked as a basic to be happy is a decent level of human contact.  There is a lot of research on the benefits of getting hugs.  But any caring contact matters.  One of the things I love most about visiting oldest sister’s house is that fact that my nieces are both hug machines and the older is the best back scratcher I know.  Massage is also a way to get this type of contact.  We release chemicals in our body when we get caring contact that elevate our mood and help us to be happy.

So when you’re feeling a blue, a little out of sorts try getting back to basics to be happy.  Go through the checklist, most of the time something off of the list above is lacking.  So get what you need and have a happy day my friends ~ Rev Kane

Other Posts to Help You Get Back to Basics and Be Happy!

The Best of the Ministry of Happiness

We hear you, We see you, We love you

Happiness, Attitude and Simple Pleasures

 

 

 

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Slow Down, Relax, Be Happy

Slow Down, Relax, Be Happy

01Lighten up, just enjoy life, smile more, laugh more, and don’t get so worked up about things. ~ Kenneth Branagh

The holidays are upon us, work has been incredibly busy, I’ve been working six days a week for the last month and staying late a couple of nights a week.  There is a light at the end of the tunnel and soon things should mellow out a bit and give me some time to kick back.  I have a great trip planned for part of my break time.

So it’s time to sit back and relax and take it all in, all of life, the sun and the clouds, the people, the madness, all of it.  Just be thankful for life, grab a cup of tea or cocoa and find a spot in front of the fire and just be.

That’s what I’m doing tonight, I hope you are as well so we can both have a happy day. ~ Rev Kane

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A little visual happiness

A little tour around the web and through Facebook for some images to make and remind us about happiness ~ Rev Kane

 

 

 

 

 

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TED talks on Happiness

TED talks on Happiness

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The Dalai Lama professes on happiness and kindness

If you don’t know about TED talks yet, prepared to become addicted. The TED series takes entertaining experts in their field and has them put together a talk on the new, the unique, the cutting edge of their field.

There is a TED radio hour and this week they put out a series of talks on the Pursuit of Happiness, I particularly like the third talk by Malcolm Gladwell on Spaghetti Sauce and Happiness, enjoy and as always have a happy day my friends! ~ Rev Kane

For those of you who are more visually oriented, some more TED talks on happiness:

Nancy Etcoff on the surprising science of happiness

Nick Marks: The Happy Planet Index

Matthieu Ricard on the habits of happiness

Other talks on Happiness

AT Happiness: Reflections on Happiness

Deng Ming-Dao on Happiness

Videos on Happiness

The Dalai  Lama on Happiness

 

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Happiness is Photography: Mardi Gras 2016 – Krewe of the Bossom Buddies

Happiness is Photography:

Mardi Gras 2016 Krewe of the Bossom Buddies

fix bosom buddiesThe Krewe of the Bossom Buddies & Breast Friends is a unique Mardi Gras parade.  It’s a fairly new Krewe and they parade in the French Quarter in the mid-day.  It’s a small, walking parade, no floats, just the fabulous ladies, the men that support them and a band.  I loved this little parade, the ladies were fun, flirty and amazingly photogenic.  It’s a quick parade but the throws are great both the beads and the breasts they hand out.  I’ll let the pictures tell the whole story, enjoy ~ Rev Kane

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The Grand Boobah distributing breasts

 

The lovely ladies of the Krewe of Bossom Buddies & Breast Friends

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And some pictures of the Big Fun Brass Band

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Other Photography Posts You Might Enjoy!

Mardi Gras in Mobile

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Trekking in the Himalayas

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