Happiness with the Bedouin: Wadi Rum

Happiness with the Bedouin: Wadi Rum

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Rev Kane riding Hamren

If life gets tight, loosen it by travelBedouin Proverb

I’m a wanderer, I don’t stay in once place very long, I never have.  I’m incredibly comfortable traveling, I’m someone who truly believes home is wherever I’m sleeping tonight.  Because of this I’m often called a gypsy, mostly I think because it’s a term with which people are familiar.  I could just as easily be called a Bedouin.

The Bedouin have always fascinated me and in planning my trip to Petra in Jordan, I would not miss a chance to spend some time in the desert with the Bedouin.  A little plug here, I did 3 days and 2 nights in the desert with Jordan Tracks.  There company was fantastic and provided us with incredible service and a wonderful tour.  If you’re heading for Wadi Rum I highly recommend them.

We started out our first day by traveling to a 300 foot high sand dune.  The dune was magnificent  and a bear to climb, but the views on top were fantastic.

fix-sand-dune fix-selfie-wadi-rumWe would cruise around the desert for the rest of the day taking in the standard scenic stops.  For me though, the real joy was just being out in the desert, it was both a little cold and totally comfortable in the sun.  We stopped for lunch in the sun and Hevs our guide made a really wonderful lunch.  Eating vegetables, humus, stewed beans and tomatoes in the sun with warm bread and tea was utterly fantastic.

  After lunch we visited a slot canyon with ancient petroglyphs a truly magical place.

fix-rk-14 fix-rk-19KODAK Digital Still Camerafix-fin-41 fix-fin-42 fix-fin-43We would head back to the camp that night and the camp was great, even a cold night was comfortable in the tents under piles of blankets.  We had a traditional Bedouin pit dinner that night and I have to say the chicken was perhaps the best I’ve ever had.  More tea of course, good conversation, and a fire ended the day.

Our second day found me with a truly horrible head cold in full force.  After a great breakfast we headed out into the desert and headed for the Saudi Arabia border.  This part of the desert is soft sand and the colors and the texture of the sand changed.  We hiked up Jebel Khash with a view of Jordan’s highest peak and far across the valley less than 7 Kilometers away we could see the border crossing into Saudi Arabia, very cool.

Hevs pointing out the highest peak in Jordan

Hevs pointing out the highest peak in Jordan

Hevs with Saudi Arabia in the background

Hevs with Saudi Arabia in the background

We would cut the day short so I could nap before dinner.  Getting up that night the stars in Wadi Rum were magnificent, star shots provided by my traveling partner Kevin aka Backtrack.

fix-stars-milky-1 fix-stars-milky-2 fix-stars-milky-3The morning brought me feeling better and a camel ride back into town.  I loved riding Hamren, my first time on a camel.  The views were spectacular and it was an incredible peaceful morning.

  Wadi Rum was magical, as the desert always is, our guide Hevs was a blast and full of personality.  I loved my time in Wadi Rum and it brought me happy days my friends           ~ Rev Kane

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Change is the only Constant

Change is the only Constant

Just when I think I have the way to live, life changes ~ Hugh Prather

Hello friends, man it’s been a busy few weeks and it’s not quite over yet.  I’ve been very busy at work, the end of the school year is always a hectic time.  However, it’s also a really uplifting time, an excellent reminder of why we do the work we do in education.  A great time of year to hear some truly remarkable stories about how people’s lives have changed.  Which is what brings me to what I want to talk about tonight, changes.

I love the quote by Hugh Prather, it seems to really sum up the way I’m feeling lately.  Just as soon as you feel like you’ve got things worked out, well there you are, and you don’t.  So you keep making adjustments, keep making changes, try and find the best way forward.

Positivity is the key, stay positive, stay focused and move forward.  I’ve been busy for a lot of reasons, some of which are of course the job.  Some are really positive, working on the blog, marketing my book Appalachian Trail Happiness and continuing to work toward my goal of 10,000 followers.  Of course all of that is sort of my new normal these days, but there’s been a bit more going on.  First, I’ve just moved.  A huge change in itself I have moved from the middle of nowhere in the desert to the edge of the sort of small town at in the desert.

Of course moving all of your worldly possessions and having to scrub clean a giant house takes a lot of time.  Happily I’ve done it over about three weeks which reduced the intensity, but not the level of work.  I finished cleaning the house last night, it’s a relief.

                                  A couple of parting sunset shots from the last house.

I’m excited for Memorial Day weekend, a trip up north is in order where I will get to officiate the wedding of two friends to each other, as well as see a number of people I haven’t in quite some time.

There are more changes just on the horizon but I’ll hold you in a little bit of suspense.  I mean hey, I’ve got to build readership right?  But I assure you the next surprise is only a few weeks away.  The thing I want you all to take from this is that much like happiness, the effects of change are a choice.  We can fight change but it’s a ridiculous fight, change will always happen.  So you may as well get used to it, hell, maybe even learn to embrace it.  Change can be a good thing, happiness can be yours, you just need to make the right choice.  So tonight, as tired and worn out that I am, stubbornly writing instead of going to bed early with two early mornings in front of me, I’m looking forward and staying positive, grateful for what I am able to accomplish.  I’m on a good path and good things are coming, for me and you my friends ~ Rev Kane

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Happiness is Poetry: Hosho McCreesh

Happiness is Poetry: Hosho McCreesh

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So tonight my friends, the poetry of Hosho McCreesh, a poet I discovered in my communication with Doug Draime who recommended him to me.  Not suprisingly, Doug was right on the money.  Much like Doug’s work, Hosho writes the way I like my poetry, straight forward, intense like a punch in the literary gut, so good.  You can see more of his writing and buy his work at HoshoMcCreesh.com  Give these a read and have a happy day my friends ~ Rev Kane

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10 o’clock
and the night is
slow and dull,
and someone says
“Let’s go to Vegas,”

But then you
actually go.
And you spend three days
in a hotel room
at the Sahara,
dragging the plastic
garbage can down to
the hotel bar,
and filling it with
75¢ beers, and
chucking the empties
out your twelve-story window
at the construction site
across the way,
hands around
naked hips
trying to keep
each other from
falling off the
ledge
of the sad, lonely,
and desperate
goddamned
world.

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So what’s next?

So what’s next?

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The future rewards those who press on. I don’t have time to feel sorry for myself. I don’t have time to complain. I’m going to press on. ~ Barrack Obama

So what’s next my friends? That’s a question we should all be asking ourselves right now.  Eventually this time of coronavirus will pass as things always do.  So, what are we going to do when it’s over?  You may be wondering why I’m harassing you about this right now?  Don’t we have enough to worry about just getting through?  Of course you do, but what’s next?  I’m asking because this is a blog on happiness and part of being happy is having a purpose.

Right now we all have a really interesting opportunity.  Yes, there’s a lot to be stressed about, there are challenges we’re facing while sheltering in place.  Because of all of this, our nerves are a bit frayed, our emotional reserves are down to little or nothing.  But one thing that can help is to have a project/goal, some reason to get up and get going in the morning.  For those of you working your plate is likely pretty full.  But we all still need some extra focus particularly now.  It could be a lot of things.

You could take a free online course and learn a new skill or even a new career, you could decide to work your way through every free art museum collection on the web.  You could decide to read a number of classic books you’ve never read or possibly work trough a list of classic movies.  Maybe you throw yourself into learning a new language.  For me, I’ve decided to go on 6 week fitness jaunt to see if I can further lower my blood sugar, get up to my goal of running three miles and put an inch on my biceps.  If you’ve got stairs you can climb each day, then set a goal to climb the equivalent of Mount Everest.  Maybe you could work on learning to cook a new style of cooking.

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The most attractive idea to me, that I’ll tag onto my health project, is to start thoroughly planning my next big trip and you can do that as well.  You can use the web to completely and thoroughly research someplace, work on the local language if necessary.  Read a bunch of blogs by people who’ve traveled there, find out every little interesting thing you can do someplace and plan the most incredible trip.

Finally, if all else fails, you could go back and read all 1353 Ministry of Happiness posts. You’ll read about lots of great travel, some good wisdom, discover new resources, get some amazing quotes and see some fantastic photos, and after all that, you’ll certainly have some happy days my friends. ~ Rev Kane

 

 

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Happiness Resources: Happiness Podcasts

Happiness Resources: Happiness Podcasts

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Tonight a collection of multimedia pieces about happiness, enjoy and have a happy day my friends ~ Rev Kane

Happiness podcasts from Robert Puff, PhD podcasts on a range of topics related to happiness.

Spread Happy – a site with a number of happiness related videos to check out

How to be happy podcasts – a series of podcasts on life, relationships and happiness

Does having children make you happier? – a piece from NPR

What you need to be happier –  10 minute video lecture

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Happiness is Poetry: Pablo Neruda

LoHappiness is Poetry: Pablo Neruda

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Today another one of my favorite poets, Pablo Neruda almost the polar opposite of Bukowski, Pablo Neruda immerses himself in love and beauty and of course a bit of happiness.  So today, Ode to the Happy Day, enjoy and have a happy day my friends ~ Rev Kane

Glascow Scotland

Ode to the Happy Day

This time let me
be happy.
Nothing has happened to anybody,
I am nowhere special,
it happened only
that I am happy
through the four chambers
of my heart, walking,
sleeping or writing.
What can I do? I am
happy,
I am more uncountable
than the meadow
grass
I feel my skin like a wrinkled tree
and the water below,
the birds above,
the sea like a ring
around my waist,
the Earth is made of bread and stone,
the air sings like a guitar.
You, by my side in the sand,
you are the sand,
you sing and you are a song,
today the world
is my soul:
song and sand,
today the world
is your mouth:
Let me
be happy

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Happiness is Art: Burning Man

Happiness is Art: Burning Man

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Art is not what you see but what you make others see ~ Degas

Burning Man is coming up, one of my favorite times and festivals, my ticket should arrive in the next couple of weeks.  So tonight some images of former art projects from Burning Man.  Have a look and have a happy day my friends ~ Rev Kane

 

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Dr. Megavolt

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Photo by Z Deacon Blue

Photo by Z Deacon Blue

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Happiness is Photography: Ireland

Happiness is Photography:  Ireland

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“In Ireland, you go to someone’s house, and she asks you if you want a cup of tea. You say no, thank you, you’re really just fine. She asks if you’re sure. You say of course you’re sure, really, you don’t need a thing. Except they pronounce it ting. You don’t need a ting. Well, she says then, I was going to get myself some anyway, so it would be no trouble. Ah, you say, well, if you were going to get yourself some, I wouldn’t mind a spot of tea, at that, so long as it’s no trouble and I can give you a hand in the kitchen. Then you go through the whole thing all over again until you both end up in the kitchen drinking tea and chatting.

In America, someone asks you if you want a cup of tea, you say no, and then you don’t get any damned tea.

I liked the Irish way better.”~ CE Murphy

The quote above is one of the reasons I love Ireland and is really quite accurate.  Today some images from my recent trips to Ireland over the last couple of years, hopefully these will put a smile on your face and help you have a happier day ~ Rev Kane

Ireland happiness

Ireland happiness

Galway Cathedral

Ireland nature

Headstone on the Aran Islands, photo by Z Deacon Blue

Headstone on the Aran Islands

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middle river stream church fix

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Quin abbey fix

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gorss in bloom

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The Giants Causeway

The Giants Causeway

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Giving & Kindness

Giving & Kindness

Happiness, art

One of the things that research has often shown is that giving can make you happier, that even small acts of giving and kindness in the end make you happier.  Below a piece on just this thought.

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We still need adventures

We still need adventures

adventure quoteLife should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “Wow! What a Ride! ~ Hunter S. Thompson

It’s a special night when you can quote both Lemony Snicket and Hunter S. Thompson in the same piece.  Here we have another Sunday night and I’m sitting down to write my normal weekly blog post, but it’s not a normal night, or week, or month or world at this point.  But life goes on and so does the Ministry of Happiness, maybe more importantly now than normal, as people need distraction, ideas and even to feel some sense of normalcy in these truly historic and unprecedented times.

I have often written about adventure, how important it is to me and also have written about many of my adventures, Petra in the Middle East, photographing polar bears in the Arctic and hiking to Mt. Everest to name a few.  It’s been a tough year for me on the adventure front.  One of my big goals was to check off my sixth continent in 2020.  My first hope was to take a cruise to Antarctica in December of 2020.  I would come to find out that booking that trip 14 months in advance was not early enough.  So I did what you do, I adapted and decided to visit the other continent I haven’t been to yet and hike the Overland Track in Tasmania, Australia.  I was about to book the trip when it became obvious that Covid19 was going to be a major issue and heavily disrupt travel globally.  So I’m on pause, still holding out a bit of hope that things calm down enough by fall and I can still pull off a trip, we’ll see.

So for now, we’re all sheltering in place, and it seems adventure on the large scale needs to be put on hold.  But that doesn’t mean we still shouldn’t look for or can’t find adventure.  Adventure does not have to be large, they can be small and just as amazing.  So tonight I wanted to provide you all with some small scale adventure ideas that you can do given our current limitations, even with your kids.

Let’s start on the simplest end of things, exploring your own neighborhood.  It’s important that even while being sheltered in place that you get outside as long as you follow safe, social distancing rules.  If you live in a more rural environment this can mean walking woodlots, forests and fields near your home.  Taking your time and really exploring these places can be a lot of fun.  Take your time, get off the beaten paths a bit, carefully and safely turning over old logs and stumps can lead to some amazing discoveries.  Look around trees in the wet and shady places for fungi.  Use the internet to try and identify the plants and animals you find.

muchroom, adventureAnother small way to take an adventure is to walk the places you normally walk during the day, at night.  Assuming of course you’re in a safe place.  It’s amazing how a small trail or park changes just because the sun has gone down.  If you own a trail cam, set it up in your backyard.  People are often amazed at the wildlife that shows up at night in your yard even in the city.

If you’re stuck in the house and need to do something more virtual there are a lot of resources being put forward right now for free that you can utilize.  Recently I did a post on virtual resources available to entertain you.  It’s a great time to try things you never have as well.  So hey, always thought the philharmonic or opera wasn’t for you, check one out, and see.  Best thing about doing it virtually is you don’t have to dress up, buy expensive tickets and if you don’t like it you can just turn it off.  The post above has a ton of museums and cool things like virtual NASA missions to the moon utilizing actual moon mission broadcasts.

Do you have a backyard, then there a lot of things you can do to have a little adventure.  Take the family for a camping trip to the backyard, bring out the grill, make dinner, make smores and look at the stars.  Really want to do something interesting, do a little moth sheeting.  It’s really easy to do and you’ll be amazed at the beautiful and amazing little critters that show up.

The thing is, that even though we’re caught inside, even though things have changed, we can still keep things moving forward, we can even have adventures.  Do this and regardless of the situation you’ll have happy days my friend. ~ Rev Kane

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